Managing Self
These are the key Ako tuitui in this section
46 … confidence, agency, active involvement & wisdom to be a learner
Confidence
Awareness of self talk
Collaboration
Other people may not be aware of their self talk
Life long learning
47 ... taking risks that are rarely comfortable, but build character
Taking risks
Managing risks
Increasing knowledge
Risk assessment
wisdom
49 …realising the Internet is not benign.
Internet can be good and bad
Cyber bullying
Reflect before publish
Reporting on the bad
Internet safety
53 … increasing our effectiveness & efficiency via planning & being strategic
Planning for something
Thinking through a plan
Planning helps to anticipate and solve problems
Resourceful planning
Adjusting a plan
54 … active management of our impulsivity
Impulsive behaviours
Reflecting on consequences
Strategies and habits to manage impulsivity
Wisdom to think about possible outcomes
55 … identifying & addressing conflict by having the ‘difficult conversation’
Feelings
Anger
Conflict/misunderstandings
Conflict resolution
Having the difficult conversation
60 … learning from others’ and our own experiences to take actions in line with our beliefs.
Passionate people are fun
People who inspire can motivate
Passion for learning
Passion comes from deeply held principles and beliefs
We must guide our passions and reflect on them
62 … being self-aware refines our actions & reactions
Responsibility for our actions
Reflecting on our actions
Self-awareness
Emotions and reactions (over reacting)
Self-awareness for who we want to be
63 … ‘hanging out’ with people that challenge us
Friends can influence us
Friends are honest
Friends have difficult conversations with us when we are inappropriate
Friends challenge what we believe in a nice way
Friends listen and talk