Pick your favourite quote from the video or find your own to make your own kindness poster or Meme.
Try using Canva.
Discussion about integrity
Your parents have told you to walk straight home from school. Your friends are going to the dairy and want you to come. What do you do?
You have been told that your friend is saying mean things about you to other people. What do you do?
Make a vision board on an app like PicCollage or on paper about what kind of person you want to be.
The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes
Animals showing character
Failure isn’t where you fall down it's when you refuse to get back up
Kids sharing what they want to be when they grow up.
What do you want to be when your grown up?
What can you do now to help you get there?
What do you wish your teacher knew?
Make a box to share bits of the real you.
Listen to the song by Astrid S - Think Before I Talk
In groups discuss when you’ve said things you’d like to take back
Why did you say the things you did.
How do you think the other person felt?
Listen to After the Fall
After watching the video/listening to the book, discuss what Humpty said to himself to change his beliefs.
Make a trailer on IMovie for I am working on changing how I ….
Think about what might be holding you back.
Do you notice when you’ve handled a situation well? Start to!
Work out what you did right and how you might do it again
How to give a sincere apology with SORRY
S is for Stand up.
To give a genuine apology, you have to recognize what happened and how another person feels. You need to see that harm was done. It’s not always easy to do this but if you ask yourself open-ended questions, you will often say that, yes, something bad happened.
It sounds like: “I’m sorry I knocked your stuff off your desk.
O is for Own it.
Once you have said what happened, you might be ready for the next step: accepting your role. It’s not just that something bad happened. Rather, something bad happened, and you’re responsible for it.
It sounds like: “I overreacted because I was angry.”
R is for Respond differently.
Next, get ready to think about what you could have done differently. Going through this step helps you learn what to do (and what not to do) the next time your emotions get the better of you.
It sounds like: “I should have thought before I acted.”
R is for Repair the damage.
Sometimes it’s easy to fix things. Other times, what’s done is done. In these cases, you may just need to ask what they can do to make things better.
It sounds like: “I’ll help you pick it up” or “What can I do to make this better?”
Y is for Yield to their feelings.
Part of a genuine apology is not expecting that the other person will forgive right away. It may be hard for you to understand, but other people have the right to be unhappy with you.
It sounds like: “I know you might still be upset.”
Use the cheat sheet to write an apology for these common problems.
Come up with some more situations.
You take the ball off someone on the court because you want to play
You laugh at someone’s spelling result
You get caught with your phone in your bad.
From Understood for All, Inc.
Why are some people unkind?
Individualism and a lack of restraint – I’ll do it my way and I don’t care about what you think!
Inflated self-worth – People who are self-absorbed don’t value others except as a means to fill needs and desires.
Low self-worth – Being hostile and defensive is often a sign of insecurity
Materialism – The quest for money and possessions is more important than showing kindness
Injustice –An injustice may create feelings of envy, demoralization, depression, or outrage.
Stress – People who are overworked or overwhelmed may be indifferent to those around them.
Anonymity – If I don’t know you, it doesn’t matter how I treat you.
Not needing others – We are becoming content with electronic isolation
Mental health problems
Anger
Fear
These are things that can at different times in our lives impact on all of us.
What can we do to keep being kind to ourselves and others when times are hard?
Watch the video on fair trade and then play the banana split game