Identity
These are the key Ako tuitui in this section
3. Reflecting on our character that is derived from morality, ethics and spirituality.
Fairness
Morals, values and ethics
Beliefs can change
4. The realisation that there can be a tension between our ‘actual self’ and our ‘aspirational self’.
Everyone has gifts and talents
Hard work makes our talents better
Setting goals
Growth mindset
Grit
9. An awareness that our beliefs shape our purpose.
Self belief
Growth mindset
Learning pit
Achievement
10. Applying empathy to enable us to act thoughtfully & compassionately.
Emotions
Empathy
Compassion
11. Self discipline to align our actions with our principles and character (being true to self).
Sometimes people let us down
Sometimes we let people down
Habits to help us think before we do
How we feel after we have said or done something
Thinking about the needs of others
12. Honest self-reflection, allowing us to review & potentially change how we react emotionally & intellectually to situations
Regret what we say
Pause and think
Reflect in order to learn from mistakes
Self control
14. Wisdom comes from applying our virtues to different contexts & learning from the outcomes
Reacting to others
Reflecting on how others make us feel
Knowing when to give up and try another way
Wisdom comes with experience
Self-reflection
15. Applying humility, kindness & forgiveness that earns others’ trust
Kindness
Bucket filling
Feeling angry and calming down
Forgiveness
16. Feelings of anger and jealousy require us to resolve our differences with humility and forgiveness
Hurting people’s feelings
Apologising
Seeking support with jealousy and anger
Difficult conversations
Independent mediators to resolve conflict
19. Justice that desires actions in keeping with beliefs.
Fairness
Attitudes and values
Justice
