Who is able to say about the crucified lost. His Cup is His Alone and this Cup is not ours to bear. How are we able to compare His Suffering to us? This Cup is not for us. Do not say in your heart 'Your Cup is mine to have', in prayer requesting. No one owns this, it is not ours to claim and God did not choose us to suffer such as Jesus His Son. There is One Crucified Lamb of God.
Matthew 26:39 KJV
And He went a little further, and fell on His Face, and prayed, saying, "O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt."
Matthew 26:42 KJV
He went away again the second time, and prayed, saying, "O my Father, if this cup may not pass away from me, except I drink it, thy will be done."
John 18:11 KJV
Then said Jesus unto Peter, "Put up thy sword into the sheath: the cup which my Father hath given me, shall I not drink it?"