How to socialize with introverts

Introverted people often keep to themselves rather than make external expressions of what and how they feel. This can create awkward social moments if they are around people who are unaware of how introverted people think of a crowd. Introverted people approach socialization differently, according to neuroengineering expert Curtis Cripe. This is why a different kind of approach is necessary when trying to socialize with introverts.

Introverted people like to think a lot. So if you invite them to an event or to just go out, expect a lot of questions. Introverts don’t like to be caught off guard. They’d want to know who else is going, how long the event will take place, what they’ll do there, and a dozen other questions that may seem like they’re ruining the idea of spontaneity. But that’s just it; they don’t like any surprises.

Introverts are also selectively social. This means they choose when they want to be social and when they’d rather be alone at home listening to music or reading a book. If you have an introverted friend who keeps on turning you down, it’s not your fault. It may seem like a bit of work, but introverts can only muster enough energy to be around a lot of people before wanting to be alone again and recharge.

Lastly, there’s always the fact that an introvert’s idea of fun is different from other people. If their idea of a rocking Friday night is listening to music at home or listening to history podcasts, indulge them every once in a while. Curtis Cripe believes that getting to know their world is just as important as your sharing your world with them.

Dr. Curtis Cripe is the head of research and development at the NTL Group, which specializes in neuroengineering programs aimed at the diagnosis and treatment of neurological disorders connected to head injury, depression, anxiety, memory disorders, and learning disorders. For similar reads, visit this blog.