Synopsis :
Sita dedicates herself to raising Lav and Kush as exemplary individuals, hoping their virtues will lead Lord Rama to recognize them as his worthy princes one day.
When her Sakhis seek her counsel on raising children, Sita articulates an ideal vision of upbringing, emphasizing knowledge, devotion, truth, love, strength, hard work, and noble values. She reaffirms the spiritual and emotional significance of a mother’s milk in shaping a child’s destiny.
In a deeply mystical moment, mothers from other species—a dog, swan, tigress, and cow—approach Sita with their maternal anxieties. Sita listens with universal compassion, offering guidance and solace, showcasing her transcendent maternal love.
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Children grow up learning things
With mother as they danced and played
Lav Kush learn from their Guru too
While motherly "Sanskar" Sita conveyed ||1||
The aim of Sita’s life was this
To develop Lav-Kush to such level
When they come in front of father Rama
He'll see them as assets Royal ||2||
Knowing that Sita is knowledgeable
Sakhi’s ask questions that they feel
Oh! Sita tell us today
The way to bring up children well ||3||
You are the queen of Royal 'Raghu' Family
Said a Sakhi in affection
Please give us your knowledge
And show all of us new direction ||4||
Song 1 : Love of Child
Sita:
Guru is venerable in the world
For married woman, so is her husband
Parents give love unbounded
All are by it beholden.
But even more valuable than this
Is the love for one's child in this world
When one loves the child
It is as if they are one's heart and soul .
Song 2: Upbringing
Sita:
Knowledge, devotion and truth,
Be these tonics for your infant.
Love, strength, industriousness,
Feed this recipe to it.
At every step good values
Give to your darling child.
Oh! Mothers, but do remember
The good Lord in your mind.
May they grow from strength to strength,
Your loving daughter or son,
This upbringing will make her or him,
A deserving world citizen.
Song 3 : Tulsi (Sacred Basil)
Sita:
May Tulsi1 in Vrindavan2 thrive
Mothers, sisters, friends my dear,
Tulsi a pristine friend ,
Gives blessings and is always near || Refrain ||
In daily worship, offer water
Lamps of faith will light in heart
Silent thoughts Tulsi will hear
And become our confidante ||1||
With healing virtues in her leaves
Mother Tulsi nurtures lives
Such a healing may it dwell
In words I speak and in my eyes ||2||
Notes :
1. TULSI :- Sacred basil plant. In Hinduism, Tulsi (Sanskrit :तुलसी) is worshipped as a goddess and every part of the tulsi plant is revered and considered sacred.One who waters and cares for the tulsi daily is believed to gain spiritual merit and the divine grace. Tulsi plant has several medicinal uses.
2. Vrindavan :- A Tulsi Vrindavan is a small stone, clay or cement etc holding pot in traditional Hindu homes that houses the sacred tulsi plant. It is an important part of Hindu culture and is believed to bring positive energy and good luck to a home.
Song 4 : Mother's Milk
Sita :
It is as pure as 'Ganga' waters
White untainted as Himalaya that towers
Ocean-like courage is in mother's milk
Ambrosial honey is in it of flowers.
Song 5: Qualities in Mother’s Milk
Sita:
Give the child mother's milk, mother's milk.
It has pure qualities of honey,of honey
It has energy in it of the sun, of the sun
It has peace in it of the stars , of the stars
It has purity in it of God, of God.
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Sakhi’s discussed about upbringing of children
Praised little Lav-Kush profusely
My children have good 'Sanskar'
Mother Sita said proudly
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With a tilak on their forehead
And a garland of flowers on their chest
The sons of Sita and Rama
Their minds are wide and vast ॥1॥
Like their mother they are
Modest and steadfast
and like their Sun like bright Guru
They are mighty ascetics too ॥2॥
Song 6 : Well-behaved twins
Sita:
Lav kush have become four years old
They are well-behaved twins
They have wisdom like elders
With Veda mantras their day begins||1||
Some times they laugh , some times they cry,
They are my children bright
If ever I feel anxious
They're a source of my delight ||2||
Rishi Valmiki gives them knowledge
They learn each and every thing
They have glowing personae
Unaware gems of Rama the king ||3||
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After play, Lav and Kush grew weary,
In evening, they rested securely.
"Tell us tales of Vishnu," children implore,
But why does her tongue falter, unsurely?
Sita:
Lav-Kush, my tender boys,
They tire playing games and toys || Refrain||
Mother, sing us a lullaby new ,
Tell us tales of Lord Vishnu .
What perils did people face, we pray,
What pleas did his devotees convey? ||1||
As Fish, as Tortoise, and as Boar,
As Narasimha, Vamana, he did soar.
Protecting the meek, he stood so tall,
Mystical stories they are all.||2||
But when to Rama's tale I came,
My voice grew soft, limbs felt lame.
When the twins their slumber slept,
Our life story I narrated and wept.||3||
Song 8 : Message to mother’s of different species
Sita:
Like Sakhi’s of hermitage meet me
To share anxieties of their babies
So also mother's of different species
Came to tell me of their worries ||1||
They used to come to me with hope
Told me mutely of their pain
I would diagnose and support
With love caress again and again||2||
The mother of newly born pups
Said her dog brothers come to prey
They come threatening my pups
And trouble me everyday ||3||
I made her sit next to me
With love touched her snout
I will become your scolding bark
They'll run for life when you shout||4||
Swan mother on a flight afar
Alighted as if something was amiss
My children should never lose their path
Please mother bless them for this ||5||
My heart filled with affection
I held the fledglings with delight
Prayed to the Sun and Moon
To guide them in their flight ||6||
The tigress came from forest deep
With her little cubs cute
How can they live independently ?
Oh! Mother tell me this minute ||7||
I touched her udder with my hands
Gave a message of empowerment
If you are brave in thoughts
Your milk has same content ||8||
The mother cow came ringing bells
And stood next to me
How should I serve the world ?
Oh mother Sita ,please tell me ||9||
I happily hugged her in affection
And said in testimony
Whosoever's house you live in,
They'll have peace and harmony ||10||
I should symbolise sacrifice I pray
In the beautiful garden of creation
Energize every species' mother
And be their spirit of salvation ||11||
Ensconced in your inner soul
Through strength and devotion
Is 'AAdi Mata' the timeless divine mother
Who pervades you in salvation ||12||
Song 9: Seeing the Lord perpetually
Sita:
Should you lose your son
Who loved you and smiled
You see him everywhere ,don't you
In every other child.
When the relation with God
Is one of love and pining
You'll see him everywhere
In every living thing
Song 10 : A Mother's Heart
Sita:
A mother's heart, a sacred bloom,
A haven pure, with love’s perfume || Refrain ||
A confluence of sacred shrines,
Warm Sun-rays when dawn shines ||1||
Goddess Laxmi1 stays with grace,
With Lotus2 held in holy place . ||2||
Notes:
Laxmi : Goddess ‘Laxmi’ personifies Shakti (energy).
She inspires truthful thoughts and deeds Dutifulness is her dear synergy. Shakti gives auspicious inspirations, Human development work gets done with ease
This virtue of Shakti is best enshrined in a pure mind.
Reference : Ibid Chapter 15 .
(Goddess Laxmi is often associated with beauty, fertility and prosperity)
LOTUS : The Lotus flower symbolizes purity, beauty, and spiritual growth. The unfolding petals of the lotus represent the expansion of the soul and spiritual awakening.
Song 11 : O my SAKHIS1, homemakers wise
Sita:
O SAKHIS1, homemakers wise,
This prayer to you, I begin,
Kindle radiant lamp in mind
See your inner strength within ||1||
Know MANTRA2 of prosperity
Gentle words speak all day long
Hearts immersed in harmony
SATSANGH3 of the TRUTH adorn ||2||
Guru’s Writings, scriptures divine,
Aura of pure thoughts gleam
Effulgence of AMBA4 you enshrine,
Ponder on this sacred theme ||3||
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SAKHIS : Lady friends
MANTRA : Devanagari मंत्र is a sacred syllable, word, or set of words that have spiritual potency. In common parlance, it is often used to denote a phrase that reflects some basic belief.
"SATSANGH" ( Sanskrit: सत्सङ्ग Devanagari:सत्संग ) is commonly used to refer to a spiritual gathering or association with truth. It typically involves coming together with like-minded individuals to engage in activities such as singing devotional songs, listening to spiritual discourses, chanting mantras, discussing spiritual topics and in general other topics too of general positive intent and content .
AMBA (Sanskrit: अम्बा , Devanagari : अंबा ) In Hinduism, Amba is a goddess who embodies the divine feminine principle shakti (Power). She is also known as Uma, Parvati, and Durga. Amba is the wife of Shiva, and she is often depicted as riding on a lion or a tiger. As the goddess of strength and power, Amba is revered by Hindus as a protector and a defender of the faith.
Song 12 : The Sacred Kitchen
Sita:
Sita Devi cooks a meal
Remembering name of Lord Rama,
With forest’s bounty ,roots and fruits
Brought by Him and Lakshmana ||1||
In earthen pot, she adds the portions
Fire of ‘TRIGUNA1 ’ aglow
Salt and Mustard wisely used
Pure thoughts like water infused flow ||2||
Notes: 1.TRIGUNA : Here TRIGUNA refers to the SHAKTI (Power), BHAKTI (Devotion) and MUKTI (Salvation) elucidated in Chapter 15 Ibid.
Song 13 : OH Merciful God !
Sita and Sakhis:
You're Ocean of knowledge
Oh ! Merciful God ,
Take me at your feet please
Oh! My Lord ||Refrain ||
In the sweet songs of birds
Oh ! Merciful God ,
I hear your mystical voice
Oh! My Lord ||1||
In forests ,trees and blossoms
Oh ! Merciful God ,
Let me see you
Oh! My Lord ||2||
There is only one 'Truth'
Oh ! Merciful God ,
Your name has infinite power
Oh! My Lord ||3||
End of Chapter 11
Om Shanti ! Om Shanti ! Om Shanti !