Our Elders Care

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  • Blood Pressure Monitors

  • Wheel Chair options

  • Bathroom aids

Resources:

Senior Solution (formerly Council on Aging for SE VT), 56 Main St., Suite 202, Springfield, VT 05156 (802)

JilMac's essential "Did you know"?

  • 90% of people in Nursing Homes are there because their families can't handle bathroom incontinent issues

  • Bidets - Keeping hinney's clean & dry is important. http://biobidet.com Scroll down to the Bidet videos http://www.biobidet.com/BB1000_SupremeBidet.htm

  • Adult Diapers are made of paper - paper dries the skin - use Vaseline to create a barrier from paper & irritants which can lead to infection

    • You can order diapers directly from Amazon and have them automatically delivered monthly by mail.

    • Their are two types of diapers: pull-ups (which can be cut off if needed) and adhesive tabs

  • Christopher Reeves died of complications from skin Bed Sores - not because he was paralyzed, used oxygen, or bathroom hygiene

    • If senior is sedentary - consider purchasing ROHO cushion with 2 covers for easy cleaning - they are expensive but the BEST

    • Specialty Lift Chairs give your Senior freedom - pay the extra for INFINITE POSITION - it allows them to put their feet above their head - good for circulation. Expect to pay $1,000 - it is well worth the money, they sleep easily in it.

    • The good place is across the river from Bellows Falls - they have good selection to check out, & you can order and get within a week

    • The fabric is easy to clean - the vinyl makes the senior sweat - with either use a chair pad.

  • Prescription Iron Supplements can create constipation, laxatives extract fluid from the body drying other areas out

    • when skin drys out - it causes itching - itching causes scratching - scratching can become infected - avoid infection - it causes illness

    • avoid the diarrhea/constipation swings, seniors can actually die from either of these, and it exhausts them AND their caregivers

    • it is much better to spend your money on a natural source of iron that you find at your Food Coop - they are your GREATEST FRIEND!

  • Cod Liver Oil - makes the brain work better, which leads to better decisions - Elders AND Caregivers should get PLENTY

  • Head & Shoulders eliminates scalp formations, itching & scratching - use on a regular basis - if you need more help go to a Dermitologist! They have great Pre Cancerious Creams that take care of a lot of skin issues.

  • Keep feet in good condition by going to the Podiatrist monthly - medicare & medicare pay for most of this.

    • It takes a while to get the first appoint, then make visits every month.

    • If the caregiver is good - they will be able to learn how to do the monthly care if travel is difficult.

  • Baby Monitors provide caregivers visual/audio access, while giving seniors privacy, enabling caregiver to work in another room

  • Nest Internet Monitors are great if you are out of the house, or if you want others to participate in monitoring or interacting - they have voice & sound.

  • Multiple TV remotes - allow the senior access to the TV - and allow the caregiver to easily lower sound, change channel, turn TV off/on without disturbing the senior

  • Digital Cameras are your friend, Take pictures of things, when you are a caregiver it is hard to remember did this happen yesterday or last month. It is also easy to bring a picture of a bruise, from last week and the week before - to the doctor's office so they can see the process of a wound, weight loss, or anything that may change OR that you have a question about. Even bowl movements - take a picture - you have a time/date stamp. Click before you flush! Laugh ... but what goes in and what comes out and primary concerns.

  • Medical Supply Web Sites & Stores can be a great place to research ideas - because we need to find solutions as our senior ages.

  • Grab Bars - you can't have to many! In my fathers bathroom we had 7 of them in the bathroom and one on the door (and a spare that never got put up, just in case!)

Oximiters - Finger Pulse models easily show Oxygen Levels and Heart Rates

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=Oximiter

  • Doctors: sometimes you have to INSIST on things. My biggest insistence was on anti depressants & anxiety meds. As our seniors get older they don't eat properly and don't get out as much - their world gets smaller - and they worry about small things - or pains - or aches. They need to be happy to make ageing enjoyable. If the dose is not adequate for YOU or Your Senior ... get it increased - you may need to do this several times - until you are enjoying taking care of your Senior. It needs to be something that will work for the long haul. If your senior is NOT happy - then you will not be able to KEEP GOOD Caregivers. If the Senior was in a Nursing Home - you can bet, no THEY WILL BE MEDICATED - they would med them until they were happy or complacent and if they couldn't get the senior that way - they WILL TRANSFER them to another facility. Personally I just needed happy - when a Senior is happy - their Caregivers are happy and stay with you.

  • Visit a Dermatologist regularly. Skin is the largest organ on the body - it takes a beating as you age. Many times a doctor will treat skin wounds, but a Dermatologist can be your best friend! http://www.drjonesdermatology.com The better your dermatologist knows you and your skin - the quicker you can catch little things that can grow ugly!

  • Get Hospice Care before you get the "6 month sentence", which is JUST a Guideline! Not the rule. With my Father who was 90, there was nothing else Hospitals could do for him.

    • His heart was bad, but if something went wrong, he was not strong enough for any surgeries.

    • His lungs had a little buildup, due to inactivity.

    • His kidneys were at 50% capacity - because he was 90, but they were not strong enough even for more testing

    • His brain had Alheimers, but it was managable with medications

  • I needed help - but no more hospital visits - I had to INSIST we go on Hospice, because I didn't want to go to the hospital anymore, he was to needy for independant living, and we didn't want to put him in a Nursing Home. I wanted people to come to the house. After signing all the paperwork we were finally entered into Hospice. These women know what they are doing! And they know how to get things FAST. It was amazing to watch them work together. We all grew during their time with us - because we could talk with them and ask very detailed questions. During my fathers (who was the last of the 5 elders[Father-in-law, Aunt, Mother-in-law, Mother, Father] I took care of) final weeks - I was amazed how accurate they were, how prepaired we were. They were there only a few hours a week - but it made a HUGH difference. Because we were prepaired, my brothers and sisters worked together, almost seamlessly. Each sibling doing what they were comfortable with. Not everyone did everything, you did what you were comfortable with - it felt right. If it didn't feel right - you got someone that was comphy with that step or you called hospice and asked for suggestions. Death is a natural thing - but we are rarely taught how it works. Hospice is our teacher.

Things to do if you get scared and don't think you can do this ....

1. Make a list. A sample form I use is listed below: Arrangements-FORM.doc

2. Read Corinthians, every time you need strength, plaster it on every wall if need be.

... if you love ... you can ... if you love ... you will have strength ... if you love ... what you do, will be the right thing. Love can not fail.

Corinthians 13

defines the attributes of Love

Love is patient,

love is kind.

It does not envy,

it does not boast,

it is not proud.

It is not rude,

it is not self-seeking,

it is not easily angered,

it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil

but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects,

always trusts,

always hopes,

always perseveres.

"Love never fails".