Have you ever loved someone who seemed to slowly disappear in front of you—without leaving the room?
If someone told you “I’m fine” with empty eyes, would you know what to say next?
How do you stay strong for someone who's falling apart—without falling apart yourself?
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🎧 Podcast Quiz: When Love Meets Depression
🎧 Podcast Quiz: When Love Meets Depression
🧠 Part 1: Understanding Depression
🧠 Part 1: Understanding Depression
1. True or False:
Depression is just another term for being sad or going through a tough week.
❏ True ❏ False
2. Which of the following is a common physical symptom of depression?
A. Sneezing and coughing
B. Constant excitement and hyperactivity
C. Sleep disturbances and appetite changes
D. Increased energy and alertness
3. What does it often mean when someone who has been deeply depressed suddenly seems calm and at peace?
A. They have recovered
B. They’re hiding their emotions better
C. They might be at higher risk for suicide
D. They’ve finally gotten enough sleep
4. Name two emotional signals that may indicate someone is experiencing depression.
(Short Answer)
🧰 Part 2: Helping Without Losing Yourself
🧰 Part 2: Helping Without Losing Yourself
5. Which of the following is the best supportive thing to say to someone with depression?
A. “Cheer up, others have it worse.”
B. “But you have so much to live for!”
C. “I see you fighting. I’m staying.”
D. “Try being more positive.”
6. True or False:
You should avoid asking directly about suicidal thoughts, because it might put the idea in their head.
❏ True ❏ False
7. What’s one practical micro-action that helps maintain connection with someone experiencing depression?
(Short Answer)
8. If someone tells you they are thinking of hurting themselves, what should you do first?
A. Give them space
B. Call a friend
C. Stay calm, ask more, and call a crisis line (e.g., 988)
D. Tell them to stop thinking that way
🛡 Part 3: Caregiver Survival & Hope
🛡 Part 3: Caregiver Survival & Hope
9. Which of the following is a healthy boundary strategy for caregivers?
A. Being available 24/7
B. Suppressing your own emotions
C. Setting specific support hours
D. Ignoring their issues
10. What does the podcast say about recovery?
A. It happens quickly with the right attitude
B. It is often a straight and smooth path
C. It requires discipline and no relapses
D. It is non-linear and may involve setbacks
💬 Reflection Bonus Question
💬 Reflection Bonus Question
(Optional – for discussion or journaling)
11. What’s one thing you learned that you can apply to support someone dealing with depression – or to protect your own mental health?
(Open-ended)
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🎧 Podcast Quiz: When Love Meets Depression
🎧 Podcast Quiz: When Love Meets Depression
🧠 Part 1: Understanding Depression
🧠 Part 1: Understanding Depression
1. True or False:
Depression is just another term for being sad or going through a tough week.
❏ True ❏ False ✅ Correct Answer: False
2. Which of the following is a common physical symptom of depression?
A. Sneezing and coughing
B. Constant excitement and hyperactivity
C. Sleep disturbances and appetite changes ✅ ❏ C
D. Increased energy and alertness
3. What does it often mean when someone who has been deeply depressed suddenly seems calm and at peace?
A. They have recovered
B. They’re hiding their emotions better
C. They might be at higher risk for suicide
D. They’ve finally gotten enough sleep
❏ A
❏ B
✅ ❏ C
❏ D
4. Name two emotional signals that may indicate someone is experiencing depression.
(Short Answer)
✅ Sample Answers:
“I’m fine” while clearly in distress
Loss of interest in hobbies
Feelings of guilt or worthlessness
🧰 Part 2: Helping Without Losing Yourself
🧰 Part 2: Helping Without Losing Yourself
5. Which of the following is the best supportive thing to say to someone with depression?
A. “Cheer up, others have it worse.”
B. “But you have so much to live for!”
C. “I see you fighting. I’m staying.” ✅ ❏ C
D. “Try being more positive.”
6. True or False:
You should avoid asking directly about suicidal thoughts, because it might put the idea in their head.
❏ True ✅ ❏ False
7. What’s one practical micro-action that helps maintain connection with someone experiencing depression?
(Short Answer)
✅ Sample Answers:
Silent work dates
Bringing their favorite snack
Sending “no-reply needed” memes
Offering help with small errands
8. If someone tells you they are thinking of hurting themselves, what should you do first?
A. Give them space
B. Call a friend
C. Stay calm, ask more, and call a crisis line (e.g., 988) ✅ ❏ C
D. Tell them to stop thinking that way
🛡 Part 3: Caregiver Survival & Hope
🛡 Part 3: Caregiver Survival & Hope
9. Which of the following is a healthy boundary strategy for caregivers?
A. Being available 24/7
B. Suppressing your own emotions
C. Setting specific support hours ✅ ❏ C
D. Ignoring their issues
10. What does the podcast say about recovery?
A. It happens quickly with the right attitude
B. It is often a straight and smooth path
C. It requires discipline and no relapses
D. It is non-linear and may involve setbacks ✅ ❏ D
💬 Reflection Bonus Question
💬 Reflection Bonus Question
(Optional – for discussion or journaling)
11. What’s one thing you learned that you can apply to support someone dealing with depression – or to protect your own mental health?
(Open-ended)
📘 Pre-Reading Task
📘 Pre-Reading Task
Before you read...
Think about a time when someone you cared about was going through a hard time emotionally.
What signs did you notice?
How did you respond?
What was difficult about supporting them?
Now, write down 2 or 3 things you think are important when helping someone with depression.
This will help you connect your experience with what you’re about to learn.
📖 While-Reading Task
📖 While-Reading Task
As you read, underline or highlight:
3 signs that may indicate someone is experiencing depression.
2 specific things a caregiver should say or do to offer support.
1 tip for taking care of yourself while helping someone else.
You may use symbols like ⭐ = signs of depression, ✅ = helpful actions, 🛡 = caregiver tips.
When Love Meets Depression
Your Lifeline for Helping Someone Survive the Darkness
When Love Meets Depression
Your Lifeline for Helping Someone Survive the Darkness
You've noticed the changes. The way their coffee grows cold, untouched. How their texts now read "Sorry, can't today" for the 14th day straight. That haunted look in their eyes - like they're watching life through frosted glass.
This isn't sadness. This is depression: a thief stealing 300 million lives globally. And if you're reading this, you've become an unwilling soldier in this war.
Decoding the Silent Distress Signals
Decoding the Silent Distress Signals
Depression masquerades as laziness or moodiness. These signs persisting 2+ weeks reveal the truth:
💔 The Emotional Earthquake
💔 The Emotional Earthquake
"I'm fine" (while crying in the shower)
Hobbies collecting dust ("What's the point?")
Guilt about existing ("You'd be happier without me")
⚡ The Body's Betrayal
⚡ The Body's Betrayal
Sleep? Either 3 hours or 15
Eating? Forgotten meals or secret binges
Movement? Like wading through cement
☠ EMERGENCY RED FLAGS
☠ EMERGENCY RED FLAGS
🚨 "Everyone would be better off..."
🚨 Suddenly giving away treasured items
🚨 Unexplained calm after rock bottom
Depression's cruelest trick? Convincing sufferers they're "just weak" while chemically hijacking their brain.
Your Battle Plan: How to Help Without Losing Yourself
Your Battle Plan: How to Help Without Losing Yourself
1. Breach the Isolation
1. Breach the Isolation
✅ Say: "I see you fighting. I'm staying."
❌ Never say: "But you have so much to live for!"
Pro Tip: Send "No reply needed" memes to maintain connection without pressure.
2. Demolish Treatment Barriers
2. Demolish Treatment Barriers
For resistance: "Let's just email one therapist together?"
Virtual support: Join their telehealth session (muted)
Medication help: Weekly pill organizer with stickers
3. Micro-Rescues That Matter
3. Micro-Rescues That Matter
"I'm at Trader Joe's. Need your favorite snacks?"
Silent work dates: "I'll do my taxes while you fold laundry."
4. Suicide Intervention Protocol
4. Suicide Intervention Protocol
Ask directly: "Are you planning to hurt yourself?"
Call 988 (or local crisis line)
Disable methods (lock meds, remove weapons)
Stay physically present
The Caregiver's Survival Kit
The Caregiver's Survival Kit
🔋 Boundary script: *"I'm here 7-9 PM daily. Let's save big talks for then."*
🧠 Stealth self-care: Audiobooks during hospital waits
🛡 Your armor: NAMI's "Family-to-Family" free course
The Hard Hope They Need to Hear
The Hard Hope They Need to Hear
🔄 Recovery isn't straight-line: Expect relapses
⏳ Medications take 6-8 weeks to start working
🧠 Your consistency physically rebuilds their neural pathways
🌎 Find a support group (www.dbsalliance.org)
Free Lifelines:
Global Crisis Lines Apps Support Communities
988 (US) My3 DBSAlliance.org
116123 (UK) Calm Harm NAMI Connections
13 11 14 (AUS) Woebot The Mighty
This isn't just advice - it's a psychological first aid kit. Tear out these pages. Tape them to your fridge. When doubt whispers "Am I helping?" – here's your answer.
📚 Post-Reading Comprehension Exercise
📚 Post-Reading Comprehension Exercise
TOEFL-style multiple choice and short answer
1. What is the main purpose of the article?
A. To explain the medical causes of depression
B. To offer practical guidance for supporting someone with depression
C. To promote new therapy apps
D. To criticize how society views mental health
✅ Correct Answer: B
2. According to the article, which of the following is a serious red flag that someone may be at risk of suicide?
A. Sleeping more than usual
B. Ignoring phone calls
C. Giving away personal items
D. Eating irregularly
✅ Correct Answer: C
3. What does the phrase “Depression’s cruelest trick” refer to?
A. Its ability to spread to caregivers
B. Its slow physical effects on the body
C. Its tendency to appear suddenly
D. Its ability to make people believe they are weak
✅ Correct Answer: D
4. What is one recommended way to maintain connection with someone experiencing depression?
(Short Answer)
✅ Sample Answer: Sending “no reply needed” memes, offering to shop for them, or silent work dates.
5. Why is it important for caregivers to set boundaries?
A. So the person with depression doesn’t get too dependent
B. Because they shouldn’t care too much
C. To protect their own mental and emotional well-being
D. So they can control the situation better
✅ Correct Answer: C
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