Conflict resolution skills are used to effectively and respectfully resolve conflict in social and professional settings.
Conflict is an inevitable and healthy part of working in groups in nearly any industry, career, or project, including within community engagement projects. It’s important to learn the skills needed to effectively analyze and mediate those conflicts in order to work effectively as a group. Conflict resolution helps individuals have empathy, respect, and empowerment, ultimately leading to healthier relationships and better production.
Conflict resolution will involve some or all of the following processes:
Identify and recognize conflict sources
Mutual agreement to address the issues
Share perspectives, concerns, and triggers of all parties
Interventions by third party mediator such as manager or instructor
Contribute to make and follow through with resolution plan
Monitoring impacts of resolution plan
Assertiveness is an important aspect of conflict resolution as it empowers the individual as well as people around them. Assertiveness is not a passive or aggressive behavior, rather it means calmly addressing conflict at the source without letting ones "fight or flight" response take over. This skill allows involved parties to move past blame or guilt and focus on addressing the concrete issues in an analytical way.
Communication is a necessary skill for mediating in conflict resolution. Respectful, clear communication creates empathy by allowing individuals to address their perspectives, including how they are impacted by thr conflict and how they want to move forward.
Accountability is important during and after conflict resolution occurs. It is the act of reflecting on ones own actions, analyzing their impacts, and being honest about them. The purpose of accountability is not to shame or embarrass involved parties, but to hold safe space for growth.
Jane Brock | Avery Van Nus | Lauren Usher | Ayden Griswold | Fall 2024
Context:
Used in all phases of the design process, but most applicable for use in instances where individuals must work together
Goals:
Identify evidence, ask questions, and try to listen and understand before you try to be heard
Tips:
Do take enough time to process information, communicate with honesty, practice asserting your needs
Don't speak without thinking, just let things go, be inflexible to new ideas or information
Over the course of the Baldwin Grows project, our group facilitated one instance of conflict resolution between our team and the client. In a meeting, a discussion around our most recent proposal documents led to the client expressing concern over the project timeline. They seemed confused and frustrated about why we hadn’t already created a master plan within the first few weeks of the semester. They wanted to be able to begin construction as soon as possible, and assumed that we would provide graphics for this purpose sooner in order to help facilitate construction on site.
We explained that our schedule had to align with the class agenda provided by our instructor, who was facilitating our relationship with the school. There were several intermediate projects we were obligated to complete including extensive background research on community engagement, as well as planning and executing the community engagement with students at the school. Moreover, we had provided a document outlining the semester-long schedule describing these processes.
Our team was able to recover from the conflict by remaining calm and discussing the matter. First, we acknowledged that the clients needs are important, and that our goal is to help them succeed. Next, we identified the source of the miscommunication. Lastly, we clarified questions and reached a solution about which we all agreed. Taking the steps to complete the conflict resolution process was important in maintaining a healthy relationship with our client. It helped them understand our goals and made our team more confident in the project. Conflict resolution ultimately leads to trust, empathy, and productiveness.