January 10, 2015.
Bias is a negative term. When we hear the word we assume it’s a very bad thing. Prejudice and discrimination carry the same negative connotation. The truth is, we are all biased. It’s part of human nature. We, as humans, are all a little prejudiced and we all discriminate a lot. It makes us more efficient as human beings, but creates problems when we trust in them too much.
If my family met another family at the airport while waiting for a flight they would make a lot of quick assumptions about us and treat us according to those assumptions. The man would most likely favor me in conversation assuming we’d have more in common and the woman would favor my wife. The kids would gravitate toward our kids that are closest in age and gender. We’d tend to trust people more that we have the most in common with.
The man might try to talk to me about a football game assuming I follow sports. That’s a mild form of prejudice that would usually serve him well, but he’d be mistaken with me. Discovering I care nothing for professional sports his prejudicial bias may cause him to assume I’m out of touch or not very masculine. He’d be way off-base there, but that bias may be correct in most cases. If I told him I was a retired USAF physicist he might assume that I’m intelligent and patriotic. In those assumptions he’d be correct. He may then discriminate in my favor and treat me with heightened respect.
The woman’s biases may cause her to assume I’m not as involved in caring for our kids as Amanda is just because I'm a man. She might learn from Amanda that we’re Christians and assume a lot of favorable characteristics if she’s a Christian too.
The children would probably assume that Amanda and I don’t know much about the music they like and probably don’t appreciate it. They’d be correct. So they might talk about their favorite musicians with our kids.
When we pre-judge people and discriminate according to our personal biases it makes human interaction with people we don’t know more efficient most of the time. As we learn more about people we don’t have to make as many biased assumptions because we know them personally. Most biases are lightly held and quickly dismissed when we learn the truth. When people hold steadfastly to biases even in the face of contrary evidence it becomes a problem. These stubborn biases create the negative behaviors we associate with racism and sexist treatment.
Even stubborn biases come in a variety of flavors.
When Americans use terms like prejudice, discriminate, and bias they are usually thinking of the most despicable of all biases, hate. This flawed, emotional response limits our ability to discuss controversial issues. We often perceive bias in people we disagree with but are blind to our own biases. In order to disagree more respectfully we need to understand the range of biases. We need to consider our own bias critically and objectively while being slow to harshly judge those we disagree with.