Module 1, Handout 1: Social/Emotional Developmental Milestones
Milestone 1: Self-Regulation and Interest in the World
Age: birth to 3 months
Goal: To become calm and interested in all the sensations of the world
Parent/Caregiver: Interactions are predictable, comforting. Parent/caregiver provides cuddling and assists the infant in times of distress
Milestone 2: Forming relationships and Attachment
Age: 3 to 6 months
Goal: Building trust in caregiver, engage and relate, ability to woo and to be wooed
Parent/Caregiver: Be a secure relationship that survives negative feelings, build trust, and have predictable responses
Milestone 3: Intentional Two-Way Communication
Age: 4 to 10 months
Goal: Responsive to emotional cues, initiating interactions to get needs met
Parent/Caregiver: Provide “shared meaning”, create opportunities for success; narrate emotional experience for the child
Milestone 4: Complex Sense of Self (12-24 months):
Age: 12 to 24 months
Goal: How to interact with others to solve problems and discover a sense of self
Parent/Caregiver: Be an interactive partner, support child’s use of gestures to pursue interests and meet needs
Milestone 5: Discovering a World of Ideas (24-36 months)
Age: 24 to 36 months
Goal: Creating Ideas
Parent/Caregiver: Enter child’s make believe world, engage in long conversations about interests, desires, complaints
Milestone 6: Building Bridges between Ideas (36-48 months):
Age: 36 to 48 months
Goal: Emotional and abstract thinking
Parent/Caregiver: Encourage use of ideas; logical, emotionally meaningful dialogues
Reference
Greenspan, S. (1999). Building Healthy Minds. Cambridge, MA: Perseus Books.