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now moving to my final thoughts Sheila
never had remorse although she did
understand that she should have it she
realized how unusual it was for the
remorse to be absent.
Ā I think this illustrates quite well how frustrating
it can be for family members mental
health clinicians law enforcement
officers and others to deal with
individuals who have personality
disorders.
Ā the lack of insight can be so
profound that there is no common
language normal behavior is completely
foreign to some people who suffer from
personality pathology if someone has
never experienced remorse explaining it
to them will only do so much they may
come to understand it cognitively but it
will never make sense to them
emotionally those are my thoughts in the
case of Coon Fight Xmas 2023
Ā please put any opinions and thoughts in the comment sectionĀ
DAVID
crazy Shayla crazy how you're acting todayĀ
videotape me you let
your family mistreat us and me and the
girls the the other night you hurt
Amelia you squeezed her and she said you
hurt me I did not squeeze herĀ
DAVID
no I didn't I tapped her on the shoulder i tapped her on the shoulderĀ
she said you hurt HER and YOU said I'm not hurting you
you don't have a right to tell
somebody how they feelĀ
DAVID
okay ShaylaĀ
SHEILA
she's a 13-year-old girl if I go like if I go
like this to MiaĀ
DAVID
okay Shayla YOU WIN
SHEILA
it's not about winning
it's about understanding for the sake of
the sanity of everybody here if you if I
squeeze her too hard and she says mom
that hurts I'm not going to try and tell
her no it doesn't hurt because I didn't
mean to hurt you just because I didn't
mean to hurt her doesn't mean it doesn't
hurt when you touch my leg sometimes and
you squeeze it and I tell you David that
hurts and you say to me no that doesn't
hurt yeah it does hurt because my legs
are sensitive they hurt if she sits
there and tells you I have anemia
sometimes when people touch me it hurts
you don't have a right to sit there and
turn into this blowout fart and wake her
up at midnight to tell her that you
research what hurting means that's
abuse you woke her up at midnight to
tell her you researched the definition of HURTING
DAVID
she was awake alreadyĀ
that's abuse bro she's 13 you're almost 40 and
I get to teach what words meanĀ
DAVID
Shayla IĀ
SHEILA
you don't get to teach them what is...
that's her body the definition of a word
that's her body if a man rapes her and
she says no it hurts it's her body she
said no if you she says you hurt her you
hurt her okay I hurt her Shayla fine no
this is what you do to us you've been
doing this to us for please videotape I
promise you you have been abusing us
since 2019 and you have not stopped
you decided when you moved us to that
house that you didn't have to work and
that house was in foreclosure since
2021 the girls and I have been worried
about not having a place to live and the
first chance you got you ebscon and ran
your tail over to New York okay to make
sure you had a safe place to go while
you let me and the girls sit there in an uncertain situationĀ
and I have proof David Lori is willing to testify Maria
is willing to testify AbOut what A server alcoholic you areĀ
stop it you're Abusabive you're abusive you're abusive even nowĀ
you can videotape me all this is
what she's doing you can vide me all you
want and by the way for the record I'm
also not a pump and dump station H there
you go get what all right you treat me
like a piece of crap for four years why
because I was fat and you think that
it's okay to treat a woman like that I
work six seven days a week while you sit
here videotape that here I'll do it for you isĀ
DAVID
Sheila can you please just do Christmas right now? please sit down and just be Christmas
SHEILA
like so this this this is what's going
on this is what he does all day while
I'm at the shop workingĀ
David
it's christmas...
hours till 1 2 in the morning this is
what he does he sits here and he plays
video games this what he does he has his
whole thing set up so that he can play
video games and make YouTube channelsĀ
I can't stand you. I literally can't you.
David
I am asking you to stop doing this this morning.Ā Ā
I'm asking you to stop just stop doing this please I'm begging you ShaylaĀ
SHEILA
look at what he's doing right
now he's did you see what he please do
your favor back me up so I don't look
stupid do you see how he was just
screaming and yelling and now he put the
video camera on and saying stop doing
this you see this is what he this is
what you do I'm asking you to stop doing
this you instigate David and then you
turn that video instigateĀ
David
I'm not instigating ShayĀ
SHEILA
you're instigator you are an instigator do you want me to get
on my knees and beg you Shayla I'm
begging you right now begging me to do what?Ā
David
to be respectful. I want you to be...
SHEILA
I don't respect a man who let his wife and two kids
David
so that means you're never going to respect me ever again?
SHEILA
Ā you haven't changed you're the same personĀ
you're the same person. the fact that you told...
Ā I'm still stuck on that because it's her body!Ā
my sons were raped!Ā
Here go ahead and videotape thisĀ
my sons My Three Sons were raped by their
brother-in-law and their father did what
David just did to Amelia he sat there
and turned around their whatever their
pain was and made it about him and not about themĀ
David
not true yes it is trueĀ
SHEILA
this is a little girlĀ
David
you're gaslighting me. you're making me believe something
didn't that something happen didn't happen I said thatĀ
SHEILA
I talked about this with Alyssa and Ryan I talked with them
about this I talked with Ryan too
yesterday Ryan said don't put your hands on herĀ
that's what he said and he also said that by telling her that she wasn't
actually hurt you're setting her up for opening other men to hurt her because
she's not being validatedĀ
this is a minor thing but it grows into bigger
stuff people talk about things outside
of you and IĀ
David
okay Sheila I agreed with you
SHEILA
You agree with me on what? that no
no no no if I hurt her physically I say
sorry I mean I didn't mean to do
that by sitting there and telling her
you sat there she literally all she said
in that moment was a David that hurts
and you know what you from that moment
on you turn it into almost 24 hour no no
no no no no she said you hurt me and you
turned around and told her no I did not
you and she explained it to you she said
David when I don't take my iron
sometimes when people touch me it hurts
Shay that's not what happened at that
point you oh my God no it is exactly
what happen happened and then what did
you do that and she told me the next day
that you went into her room at midnight
you went into her room at midnightĀ
David
she was awake to tell herĀ
SHEILA
it doesn't matter. you don't need to go into her room to
tell her that you look at the definition of hurting and it's and she wasn't hurt
do you not see it if you don't see it you are DisturbedĀ
you are telling her this is her body if I Hurt if I if I accidentally
go like this to squeeze her and just cuz
I'm excited and I hurt her accidentally
I pinch her too hard or I just like squeeze her too hard she has the right
to say to me Mommy that hurts you at
that point you know what I say to her I say milĀ
David
ok Shay you're right about that.Ā
SHEILA
I'm right about what?Ā
David
but I'm asking you something else that you're not addressingĀ
SHEILA
no no no I'm right about what
I'm right about what because the problem
here here and the girls are being quiet
about it but we've talked about this for
6 months the problem is is that you have
this thing where you encapsulate
yourself in these blinders that makes
you either a hero or a victim and you
totally you totally delegate our valid
emotions into this Abyss okay because
you're oblivious to our pain.Ā Ā
SHEILA
Ā oblivious cocoon (She seriously named dropped one of my channels, it's @oblivioncocoon)
that's where you are that's where. you send our emotions that's where you
send our experience that's what you do
the only ones that you put okay loud and
clear are you're not listening to me at
allay you're still doing it you're still
doing it there's an impact responding
you're not listening to me no we're
never going to connect we're never going
to connect because you're still doing it
I'm not I'm not out of turn I'm not out
of turn and you could have talked to Ryan for an hourĀ
I've been talking to Ryan for months you know Ryan told me
Ryan told me to divorce you he's been
telling me as a matter fact last week he
said divorce him just do it because he
he's doing exactly what he did before
and you're a dumbass if you keep taking
it. okay this is a guy who works 16 hour
days okay went into work with a heĀ pushed work andĀ
[final scene where sheila confesses to wanting other men]
I explained to you privately I know you don't want me to
speak on it okay some of the reason I'm feeling...
DAVID
okay I'm sorry I'd likeĀ
SHEILA
no you're not orry you're not sorry you're not sorry
I've been telling this for years you're
not sorry I don't want to live I've lost almost
100 fucking pounds!! do you not get it?Ā
I go out in the world and I can clearly
see dudes are checking me out I want
that I want a man to fucking be passionate towards me,Ā Ā
to be so attracted to me that he can't stop himselfĀ
DAVID
all you have to do is respect meĀ
SHEILA
respect YOU? no! sorry there's a physicality to it I hate
to tell you this respect matters I'm
sure you you I don't know how many
sexual partners youve had bro I haven't had muchĀ
DAVID
respect matters!
SHEILA
respect you?
DAVID
you don't respect me all you do you?
SHEILA
respect respect yeah respect we're
living in a point in the house that
belongs to somebody else when there's a
house over there that we could have had
that was ours but instead the girls and I...
[END OF FINAL SCENE]
NARRATOR
Sheila never had remorse although she
did understand that she should have it he
realized how unusual it was for the
remorse to be absentĀ
I think this illustrates quite well how frustrating
it can be for family members mental
health clinicians law enforcement
officers and others to deal with
individuals who have personality
disordersĀ
the lack of insight can be so
profound that there is no common
language normal behavior is completely
foreign to some people who suffer from
personality pathology if someone has
never experienced remorseĀ
explaining it to them will only do so much they may
come to understand it cognitively but it
will never make sense to them emotionally
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