Practice Resource Guide
Where to Begin?
We take refuge in the Dharma as Teachings
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We take refuge in the Dharma as Teachings
Refuge in the Dharma as Teachings
The word dharma doesn’t have a single English meaning. It’s a word in an ancient language called Sanskrit, and it can be translated as “truth,” “phenomena,” or “the nature of things.” When it’s capitalized, the word Dharma usually means the teachings of the Buddha and the practices based on those teachings.
Recovery Dharma, Page viii
Leaning-in with Curiosity
The Buddha taught that one of the strongest hindrances to awakening (Recovery) is doubt - in self, in others, and in the teachings.
Fortunately for us, the Buddha's solution was not to double down on blind faith. Instead, the suggested antidote is to turn towards that teaching or practice with curiosity. We may find that it is, indeed, not for us. However, we are just as likely to find hidden gems that serve as motivators to continue The Path of Recovery.
This page offers resources to either determine if or remember how Buddhist teachings are trustworthy as a vehicle for recovery and awakening.
Listen to Talks
If you need inspiration with this part of the practice, return to the Inquiry heading on the Title Page of the Practice Guide
Here are talks that expand on taking refuge in Buddhist Principles.
Talk: Compassion Through Wisdom is Liberation from Suffering - Sylvia Boorstein
Talk: Harvesting the Gifts of the Ancestors - Larry Yang
Scroll down to the Playlists for links to more recorded talks meditation, articles, and books.
Use the phrases listed under Concepts to search for relevant talks and meditations in Buddhist Sources.
Stay Curious
Concepts - Glossary
Four Noble Truths
Freedom, Joy
Wise Mindfulness
Three Jewels: Buddha, Dharma, Sangha
Ten Pāramitās: Perfections or Wise Practices
Five Hindrances: Craving, Resentment, Sloth, Worry, Doubt
Four Heart Practices: Kindness, Compassion, Equanimity, Appreciative Joy
Rewire the Brain for Recovery
Pause several times a day for 30-90 seconds
Notice the sounds that arise around you
Practice just letting them be received in your ear rather than going looking for them.
Several times a day, pause to repeat a supportive phrase for a few moments
May I be kind and gentle with myself
Take time to sit in meditation
Explore and Experience
Re-read the readings "Four NobleTruths" and "The Eightfold Path." Perhaps listen to some of the recordings on this page, or ask some wise friends about their experience with Buddhist Teachings or thought.
As you explore, see if you notice if any of the following qualities have been mentioned in referring to Buddhist teachings or thought.
Compassionate
Reliable
Trustworthy
Trusting
Understanding
Accepting
Shared Human Experience
Share what you have written or noticed with a wise friend or mentor.
Practice Letting Go
Reasons - Pros and Cons
We practice letting go of habitual behaviors such as:
Anxious thinking, scrolling, overeating, dieting, debting, underearning, overworking, porn, worry, attempting to control others, and drinking smoking or injecting intoxicants
What are the downsides of how things are going now?
What are the advantages of continuing your habitual behavior?
What would be difficult or undesirable about following the Recovery Dharma principles?
What might be pleasant, desirable, or beneficial about learning more about the Recovery Dharma concepts?
Attend and Befriend
If you have questions at a meeting about words, any of the opening readings, or Buddhist concepts of recovery, then suggest it as a topic.
Listen to Dharma talks linked below about the practice and taking refuge in Buddhist Wisdom.
Develop Deep Connection
Read more about the concepts of Wise Friends and Mentors at the Recovery Dharma Website.
If your preference is to find a mentor, but no one in your meeting is available, then start to connect with others as Wise Friends. These connections can do all of the same recovery tasks as mentors and mentees.
Support the Sangha
Respect the confidentiality of all who attend and what is shared at our meetings.
Members and servant leaders: encourage and support each other to read the book, practice with the inquiries and grow in your own understanding of a Buddhist path of recovery.
If you don't feel ready to serve as a mentor, then offer to work with others as Wise Friends. Set up a structured time to dive more deeply into the inquiry practice of Recovery Dharma.
Instruction: How We Hold the Practice | Oren Jay Sofer | Insight Meditation Retreats
Instruction: Mental Noting Technique | Jill Shepherd | Blue Mountain
Talk: Where You At, Where You Going - Joanna Hardy , Matthew Brensilver , Vinny Ferraro
Talk: Full Contact Compassion - Vinny Ferraro
Talk: Compassion and Wisdom - Kamala Masters - POC Retreat - Spirit Rock
Retreats
The links to these specific retreats will be repeated throughout the Practice Resources section of this site. You can focus your listening on these talks as you work through the Recovery Dharma Program.
Insight Meditation Retreat 2022
Mindfulness Meditation and Heart Practices
James Baraz, Tempel Smith, JD Doyle
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
Talk: What is Dharma? - Doug Smith - Secular Buddhist Association
Talk: Practice is Weeding - Doug Smith - Secular Buddhist Association
Talk:
Recordings from people who are members of communities that are currently underrepresented in Western Buddhist communities will be pulled from the list above and highlighted here.