Practice Resource guide
Coping with Difficulties
We cultivate practices to work with difficulties whent they arise during meditation .
About this Page
Introduction of the Concepts and Practices on this page and how they relate to recovery
How this Concept Applies to Recovery
Coping with Difficult Emotions
Often when difficulties arise (whether in meditation or in life) we feel stuck, trapped, and overwhelmed. Thus we return to our habitual strategies. But how do we break out of those patterns - seeing that we are so stuck and trapped?
There are several powerful practices that fellow practitioners and teachers have developed over the years. This page explores some of those options.
How The Practice Helps
Strategies and Resources available to us
When we work with these practices, over time they cultivate a new set of habits. When difficulties arise, these resources eventually become available to us as a resource - even when our brains are triggered with fear, craving, anger, or grief.
Three Refuges
Four Noble Truths
Four Heart Practices
Five Hindrances and their antidotes
Four Foundations
RAIN
SOBER Breath
Three Refuges
Curiosity
Appreciation
Refuge in the Dharma
Practices that explore and deepen understanding of the Concepts
The Path
Read the Book
Four Noble Truths
Four Heart Practices
Growth
Stay Curious
Entering, Grounding, Centering, Collecting
Pausing, Curiosity, Engaging, Savoring
Concentration, Awareness
Refuge. Belonging: Loving Kindness, Wise Friend or Mentor
Savoring
Impermanence
3 Poisons, 8 Winds
Dissatisfaction, pain, stress
Impermanence (Anicca)
Lists
Three Jewels: Buddha, Dharma, Sangha
Ten Pāramitās: Perfections or Wise Practices
Four Heart Practices: Kindness, Compassion, Equanimity, Appreciative Joy
Refuge in the Buddha
Practices that connect us to our deepest Wisdom
Meditation
Rewire the Brain for Recovery
Curiosity
Kindness
Four Foundations
Appreciations
Inquiry and Investigation
Explore and Experience
RAIN
SOBER Breath
Five Hindrances and their Antidotes
Renunciation
Practice Letting Go
RAIN
SOBER Breath
Refuge in the Sangha
Practices that cultivate connections with wise friends and mentors
Meetings
Attend and Befriend
Wisdom, Insight
Contribute your time, energy, skills, and finances to sustain the Sangha.
Contribute Financially
Volunteer set up or clean up meeting
Volunteer to greet new people
Volunteer to read reading or the script during meeting
Reach out to new people between meetings to share your experience. ;
Wise Friends and Mentors
Develop Deep Connection
Interbeing, Belonging
Ask phone friends if they have time for another wise friend or mentor to work the program with - inquiries, extra readings etc.
Wise Friends; Trade time during their phone or zoom call
Mentors: focus time during the phone or zoom call on the process on just one person in the relationship - the mentee.
Core Intentions
Support the Sangha
Make decisions through a process in which each member’s voice is respected and considered
Playlist
Connect with others who have traveled this path. Each of the links on this list addresses the concepts of this section. So feel free to start with any link. If none of these recordings interest you, then use the concepts listed under the Growth heading to search for talks from the Buddhist Sources page.
Connect with others who have traveled this path. Each of the links on this list addresses the concepts of this section. So feel free to start with any link. If none of these recordings interest you, then use the concepts listed under the Growth heading to search for talks from the Buddhist Sources page.
Insight Community
Insight
Talks
Understanding Dukkha,
Joseph Goldstein,
Turning the Wheel of Dharma SeriesA Wise Approach to Pain and Discomfort
Matthew Hepburn
Insight Meditation SocietyThe Two Wings of Awakening
Jill Shepherd
Finding The Heart of Freedom RetreatThe Skill of Noticing What Else is Here,
Brian Lesage,
Flagstaff IMCPracticing with Thoughts and Emotions (RAIN)
Donald Rothberg
Mindful Communication Retreat -
1st Noble Truth and Metta
Joanna Hardy
The Four Noble Truths and the Heart Practices RetreatThe First Noble Truth
The Twelve Insights of the Four Noble Truths RetreatHow to Awaken the Witness
Insight Meditation Center of WashingtonPracticing Dukkha and the End of Dukkha In a Time of Crisis
White Heron Sangha
Retreats
The links to these specific retreats will be repeated throughout the Practice Resources section of this site. You can focus your listening on these talks as you work through the Recovery Dharma Program.
Insight Meditation Retreat 2022
Mindfulness Meditation and Heart Practices
James Baraz, Tempel Smith, JD Doyle
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
Meditations
Exploring Dukkha
Four Truths and Eightfold Path
Auckland, AUFreedom in the realm of Suffering
Spirit RockMindfulness of the Body
Insight Meditation SocietyCompassion Practice
Spirit Rock
Thai Forest / Theravada
Thai Forrest / Theravada
Pain Is Not the Enemy - Metta Forest Monastery
First Noble Truth - Metta Foresty Monastery
Craving and Clinging - Abhayagiri
Aversion - Abhayagiri
Social Anxiety - Metta Forest Monastery
Anxiety and Agitation - Abhayagiri
Doubt and Confusion - Abhayagiri
Secular / Academic
Secular | Academic
Quiz - Stress and Anxiety - UC Berkeley
Article - Craving as an Affective State
7:32 - Why We Can't Have Nice Things - SBA
15:49 - Dealing with Regret - SBA
19:13 What's wrong with pleasure? - SBA
Article - Urge Surfing - Mindfulness.org.au
Article - How to Regulate Your Emotions Without Suppressing Them - UC Berkeley
How Getting Outdoors Can Heal - UC Berkeley - Greater Good
20:43 - Chronic Stress: Problems and Solutions - SBA
17:55 - Do We Need Attachment to Be Kind? - SBA
14:26 - What is Nonattachment? - SBA
1:17:33 - Cultivating Emotional Balance Workshop - Part 1 - UC Berkeley
The Power of Vulnerability Ted Talk
Buddhist Recovery
Zen
Zen
Talk: The Four Noble Truths Thich Nhat Hanh - Plum Village
21:23 - How to Deal with Strong Emotions - Plum Village
58:34 First Noble Truth Plumb Village
Tibetan
Tibetan
Talk: Surrendering to Life - Anam Thubten - IMC Berkeley
Talk: Parting from the Four Attachments - Sravasti Abbey
Amplified Voices
Recordings from people who are members of communities that are currently underrepresented in Western Buddhist sanghas will be pulled from the list above and highlighted here.
Workbooks
Books
Recognize, What's going on? What's happening?
Allow, Accept, Antitode
Inquire, Reflect, Investigate
Nurture, Nonattachement, Let Go, Respond