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Wise Friends
Many—if not most—recovery meetings are focused on meditating together, reading literature or exploring specific topics, and sharing. There are no requirements for attendance other than a respectful curiosity, and attending meetings are a great opportunity for newcomers to visit and learn about the program. Sometimes, those who have decided to commit to this program of recovery want more support on the path. This is where the idea of a “wise friend” or “mentor” comes in.
Refuge in Dharma (Buddhist Wisdom)
Refuge in Buddha (Inner Wisdom)
Refuge in Sangha (Community Wisdom)
Here is a talk that helps expand on the Third Noble Truth.
Talk: On Cultivating Community -Jonathan Foust - IMC Washington
Scroll down to the Playlists for links to more recorded talks meditation, articles, and books.
Use the phrases listed under Concepts to search for relevant talks and meditations in Buddhist Sources.
Learn about the Concepts
A partial list of concepts that arise with this week's practice
RAIN: Recognize, Allow, Inquire, Nurture
Look for these concepts in the readings and recordings.
Rewire the Brain for Recovery
Pause several times a day for 30-90 seconds to do a mini-scan of a section of your body
Head to shoulders
Shoulders to arms
Chest to bottom
Hips to feet
Repeat a supportive phrase
May I find peace exactly where I am
Take time to sit in meditation
Explore and Experience
If you need inspiration with this part of the practice, return to the Inquiry heading on the Title Page of the Practice Guide
RAIN
Recognize | Allow | Inquire | Nurture
INQUIRIES
What is an indicator that this might be a safe place to begin healing?
What would you look for in a peer in recovery?
What are some examples of your acting kindly towards others and yourself?
How do you recognize and cultivate dharma friendships that are supportive and healing?
How can engaging in dharma friendships cultivate curiosity, kindness, compassion and renunciation?
How have others found dharma friends and mentors?
Practice Letting Go
Under Construction.
In the meantime, feel free to explore how these practices around refuge support the rest of the concepts on this page.
Attend and Befriend
Find
Connect
Contribute
Develop Deep Connection
This week
Find meetings to attend
start to participate in meetings by sharing or reading.
Practice repeating the Loving Kindness (Metta) meditations for yourself and others throughout the day.
Start to reach out to others between meetings
Find out if the meeting has a discussion board
Start to reach out between meetings.
Support the Sangha
Find
Connect
Contribute
40:26 - Practicing in Community - IMC Redwood City
42:01 -
50:30 - Community as Refuge, Community as Practice - IMS - Retreat Center
Retreats
The links to these specific retreats will be repeated throughout the Practice Resources section of this site. You can focus your listening on these talks as you work through the Recovery Dharma Program.
Insight Meditation Retreat 2022
Mindfulness Meditation and Heart Practices
James Baraz, Tempel Smith, JD Doyle
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
13:31 - How to be an Admirable Friend - Metta
Topic Page - Empathy - UC Berkeley
Quiz - Relationship Trust - UC Berkeley
17:10 - Is a Guru Necessary? - SBA
10:55 - Why Be Generous? - SBA