Bonnie Dian Whitten McDaris

LHS '66

March 20, 1948 - November 8, 2021

Bonnie Dian Whitten McDaris, born in Port Arthur, Texas on March 20, 1948, was the first child of Rev. Odell James and B. Elizabeth Williams Whitten. The family lived in Toole, Utah and El Paso, Texas before settling in Huntsville, Alabama in 1961. Bonnie graduated from Lee High School (1966) and attended Howard Payne University in Brownwood, Texas.

Bonnie is survived by daughter, Sonya Dean Brown; granddaughter, Abbigail "Abbi" Jackson Pryor (Jake); grandson, Gabriel "Gabe" Jackson; sister, Patricia "Patt" Morrison (Steven); brother, Dan Whitten (Sherrie); nieces, Michelle Sorweid, Ali Von Hofe, Perry Whitten; two grandnieces; and four grandnephews. She is also survived by stepson, Lee McDaris (Claudia); and step-grandson, Connor. Bonnie was preceded in death by husband, Harry Lee McDaris, stepson, Kevin McDaris, and her parents, Odell and Elizabeth Whitten.

Bonnie was a member of Whitesburg Baptist Church and enjoyed her fellowship with dear friends who have supported her throughout the ups and downs of life, especially the "Breakfast Babes", and our special family friend, Jan Cashion. She loved to travel and especially enjoyed traveling with her sister and brother-in-law. Bonnie's love for Jesus was evident in her life and conversations. She was so very thankful for the blessings she enjoyed in her life and was aware that everything she had been given was merely on loan to her from her Savior and was purely temporary. We are convinced she is traveling all over heaven, enjoying the sights, meeting the saints, and finding our mother, daddy, grandparents, and other loved ones who went on before. She would want to ask if YOU know Jesus personally and have asked Him to reign in your life, because she'll want to be a part of your welcoming committee into heaven!

Visitation will be from 1:30 - 2:30 Sunday, Nov. 14, 2021 at Whitesburg Baptist Church, South Campus, 7300 Whitesburg Drive. The funeral service will follow at 2:30.

In lieu of flowers, contributions honoring Bonnie's memory may be sent to Whitesburg Baptist Church, 6806 Whitesburg Drive, Huntsville, AL 35802 (www.whitesburgbaptist.org/give/) or Friends of Nazareth, c/o Highland Baptist Church, 219 Simpson Street, Florence, AL 35630 (www.friendsofnazareth.org).

Barbara Wilkerson Donnelly

August 13, 1946 - November 10, 2021

LHS '64

Seneca, SC - Barbara Donnelly, 75, of Seneca, SC, passed away Nov 10, 2021, with her family at her side. Born Barbara Fay Wilkerson in Huntsville, AL the daughter of Ann Hughes Wilkerson Johnson and Lloyd Henson Wilkerson. Barbara graduated with High Honors in English from Clemson University in 1979 and from Lee High School, Huntsville, AL in 1964. She married Edward Donnelly in Huntsville. The family has lived in Huntsville, AL, Anderson, SC, NJ and currently in Seneca, SC. In addition to caring for her family, Barbara was actively involved in volunteer work and loved working with speech and drama students in Anderson. Barbara was past president of the Project Challenge Playhouse in Anderson. Barbara was preceded in death by her son Christopher Scott Donnelly, half-brother Donald Lee Wilkerson, mother Ann Hughes Wilkerson Johnson and father Lloyd Henson Wilkerson. She is survived by her spouse Edward Neil Donnelly, daughter Devon Donnelly Sharkey and her spouse John Francis Sharkey IV and three grandchildren John Francis, Christopher Patrick and Grace Anne Sharkey. A Funeral Mass will be held at Saint Paul the Apostle Catholic Church, 170 Bountyland Rd., Seneca, SC, Saturday, Nov 13, 2021 at 11 am. Interment will be at Valhalla Memory Gardens, 698 Winchester Rd. NE in Huntsville, AL on Tuesday, Nov 16, 2021 at 11 am where Barbara will be laid to rest next to her son Christopher. Flowers are welcome at the Burial service. Alternatively, the family requests that donations in memory of Barbara be made to The M J Fox Foundation for Parkinsons Research at PO Box 5014, Hagerstown, MD 21741-5014. Funeral arrangements are being handled by the Davenport Funeral Home, West Union, SC and interment is being handled by the Valhalla Funeral Home, Huntsville, AL. After the burial a reception will be held at the Valhalla Banquet Room.

Published by The Huntsville Times from Nov. 11 to Nov. 12, 2021.

My First Four Jobs

Barbara Wilkerson Donnelly

LHS ‘64

(Editor's Note: Over the years Barbara was a dedicated writer and contributor to The Traveller. This is a reprint of the last article Barbara wrote to be printed in Lee's Traveller. It was sent on October 8, 2018.)

During my high school years, I held four jobs that I really enjoyed. The first was wrapping gifts at Dunnavant’s Department Store. I believe I was 14years old because I remember going to the Superintendent of Education’s office to obtain a permit to work after school. I was hired for the Christmas season and was paid $1.00 per hour, if memory serves. I would have worked for nothing, I was so excited to finally have a job! It was great fun just to be in downtown Huntsville during the Christmas rush with all the windows decked out, bells ringing, Christmas music playing everywhere, and everyone bustling about in search of the “perfect” gift. There were two older ladies who were the regular employees, and they taught me to wrap a package in under 90 seconds, which was essential because we often had customers lined up from the back of the store to the front door! I still love to wrap presents and have only good memories of my first job.

My second job was working for radiologists as a medical stenographer. The group was called Camp, Bryson, and Young. There was also a fourth radiologist, Dr. Vaughn. Dr. Bryson was Gene Bryson’s (Class of ’64) father, and he was an absolutely wonderful employer. He reminded me very much of Gene, personality-wise. I had heard that the doctors needed someone to answer the phone during the summer, so I applied for the job. I was interviewed by Doctor Camp, who was a very stern and imposing figure. He asked if I could spell well, and I replied that I could. After determining that I could also type, he handed me a booklet which contained 5,000 medical terms and said, “Learn to spell these words, and come back in a month. We’ll hire you as a medical stenographer.” This was a bit overpowering since I had no idea what a medical stenographer did. However, being of sound LHS stock with a strong dose of “Jane Riddle Parks typewriting skills” under my belt, I quickly figured out that I’d probably be typing medical reports!

When I returned to the office, booklet in hand and eager to begin, Dr. Camp took me to a small room which was only large enough to contain a desk, a chair, an electric typewriter, and a Dictaphone. Uh-oh! I had never typed on an electric typewriter at this point and had most certainly never seen a Dictaphone. He handed me a “belt” containing dictated medical reports and told me to “transcribe” them. He said if I did a good job after a two-day trial, I’d have the job at $1.50 per hour. If I didn’t do a good job, then we’d part ways, to put it kindly. I had no idea how to insert the belt into the machine, nor how to work the foot pedal which allowed you to forward or reverse the belt. As I sat there, almost in tears, trying to get the darn machine to play, one of the x-ray techs took pity on me and showed me the ropes. At the end of two days, I was kept on, with pay, I might add.

There was another x-ray tech named Martha, who loved to play practical jokes on me. One day she asked if I’d like a milkshake and showed me their “milkshake machine.” That was my first experience with barium, which was used for upper and lower gastrointestinal x-rays. It was a very chalky, disgusting-tasting substance, even with the supposed disguise of strawberry flavoring, and it didn’t take much of it for me to figure out that I’d been had. Martha was really cool and drove a little car called a “Sunbeam,” which had a convertible top. She took me for a ride one day during our lunch break and introduced me to Meatball Hoagies at Pasquale’s on Governor’s Drive (or maybe it was still Fifth Avenue). They also served the world’s best blueberry pie. I learned a lot while working at this job, including how to process x-rays in a darkroom. Occasionally I helped to set up cancer patients for radiation treatments.

One of my fondest memories was the day I had to call Dr. Bryson on the phone because I’d already spent 10 minutes searching my handy little book for a word that he had dictated. I read the sentence aloud, but he couldn’t remember the word I was trying hard to pronounce to him. He finally told me to just put my earphone up to the receiver and hit the foot pedal, which I did. He started laughing, and it was at least three minutes before he calmed down enough to say, “Honey, that’s just me burping, and the machine picked it up!” What a sweet man he was.

This was a very rewarding job in many ways. I’m not sure what the minimum wage was at that time, but I believe some of the D.O. (or D.E.?) students made 50 cents per hour. My $1.50 per hour was a small fortune to me. I left the job only because there was just too much work for me to handle after school resumed. Even though the doctors would send some of the belts to the hospital steno pool, I still ended up working pretty late some evenings. Four doctors saw a good number of patients during the course of an eight-hour day, and each patient meant a dictated report. During the summer, this was demanding, but possible. I just couldn’t handle it all on a part-time basis, however. No matter how much they assured me that they didn’t mind taking the excess to the steno pool, I felt as if I was not doing the job as well as I did during the summer months, and it bothered me every evening when I left for home. Type A personalities are like that, you know, and I was cursed or blessed, depending upon your outlook, with that letter of the alphabet.

The next job I had was similar in nature. I went to work for Dr. Charles Selah, who was a surgeon. He needed temporary help because he was opening a new office. This job had the potential of becoming more than temporary. Unfortunately, the typewriter was an IBM Executive with keys of varying sizes and a ridiculously-divided space bar. Since I had learned to space using the thumb of the hand with which I’d just finished a word, my spacing was all over the place! Even though years later I finally mastered this beast, it provided many moments of stress during those early days. My job, besides typing reports, was to sterilize the surgical instruments in the Autoclave, to keep the exam rooms prepared, and to ready the patients for exams. I sometimes assisted with exams and minor procedures, which consisted of handing Dr. Selah whatever he needed.

After a few months, when the new office was running smoothly, I was told that they no longer needed me. I think that was a polite way of saying, “The IBM Executive monster-machine has won!” I learned a lot during my limited run with Dr. Selah and left on good terms. I saw him a few times as a patient while Ed and I were students at Auburn and were home visiting. He would never let me pay him as long as we attended AU. In fact, I had a difficult time convincing him to bill my insurance company in later years when we were no longer struggling college students! He was not only an excellent surgeon, but also a kind and generous gentleman. I’ll always remember his twinkling blue eyes, and that I never saw him upset at any time while I worked for him.

My last position was as a cashier at the newly-opened Scottie’s Discount Store downtown. It was located diagonally across from Belk Hudson’s, where my mother worked. One day during her lunch break she had gone into the store, and the manager told her that he was in desperate need of help. I interviewed and was told to report Saturday morning at 8:00 AM. When I arrived, I thought it was very strange to find a note addressed to me taped to the front door, which was propped slightly open with a brick. The manager, whose name I won’t use here, said that he couldn’t handle the pressure any longer, so he had just quit and left! He had placed the cash inside the register and had included the name and phone number of the district manager, Mr. Iggleton, who was located in another state, possibly Virginia or Georgia. I know that it was a drive of several hours. I called him immediately, and he asked if I would be comfortable running things until he could get there, or whether I’d prefer to just close it up. Mind you, he knew this was my first day, and he was willing to give me a chance to hold it together, which earned my strongest allegiance from that moment on. I decided to give it a try. Mr. Iggleton was so nice and told me to just use my judgment if I couldn’t find a price. He also told me that I should feel free to lock up any time I needed a break. My mother came over during her lunch break and ran the register long enough for me to eat a quick sandwich, which she’d brought from the Ritz Café, a couple of doors away.

Mr. Iggleton arrived late in the afternoon, and I really enjoyed working with him. We had the store to ourselves for several weeks while he interviewed applicants for the manager’s position; therefore, I got to know him very well. I worked after school and all day Saturday. Needless to say, almost anything I did was fine with Mr. Iggleton, because of the circumstances under which we had met. This was good, because one day a lady came running in the front door like a bat out of hell and virtually shouted at me, “Do you have pretty feet?” I said, “Do I have what?” She replied, “Do you have pretty feet?” My reply probably sounded like I was trying to be a smart a--, because I had never heard of the product “Pretty Feet,” which had just come on the market. I just replied, “Well, I think all feet are sort of ugly.” She asked for the manager because I’d been impertinent, but he straightened her out, of course! I guess she just had an “ugly feet” emergency.

I met many interesting people while I worked at Scottie’s. “Mr. Tums” had a propensity for eating Tums, as you might guess, and came in once a week to stock up. There was a young man who stole one package of Schick razor blades every Saturday! Betty, the other cashier, saw what looked like razor blades sticking out of his back pocket one day, but she wasn’t certain enough to stop him as he left the store. From that point on, we would try to keep an eye on him when he came in. The store was usually packed with customers on Saturdays, and his pattern was to start down the aisle on the far side of the room from the razor blades at a leisurely pace, eventually stopping at the display of blades which hung on the wall on the opposite side of the store. Then he would exit quickly. We would count the blades while he was strolling down the first aisle, and then we’d count after he had left. We were always one short. He was the source of great consternation, especially for the manager, because this young man was supposedly mentally challenged. The truth of the matter was that he presented a mental challenge to us each week, and it was one which we never won! I left Scottie’s only because I had graduated from LHS and was preparing to enter UAH.

I learned a lot from each of my jobs: how to quickly wrap a mean present; how to work under pressure; not to panic when faced with something new; that Pasquale’s made the best Meatball Hoagies in the USA; that people are often smarter than you give them credit for being; and that the person who invented the Executive Typewriter had a definite sadistic streak! Most importantly, I learned that I could do just about anything I decided to do, and that if I didn’t know how to do something, I could learn. These jobs were the foundation for my work ethic which stood me well during my later college days. There were other jobs, I’ll admit, at which I did not put forth the same effort as in my first four, and, not surprisingly, I didn’t enjoy them nearly as much. But one day I grew up, and my roots held out. It finally all came together in the understanding that if it’s worth doing at all, it’s worth doing to the best of your ability. I took away a lot more from each of those first four jobs than the salary I was paid. I believe – no, I hope – that each of those employers felt that I did my job well, and that I earned my pay.

It is sad to have lost two more classmates last week. I am sorry to say I did not know Bonnie, primarily because of the class differences. I do consider I was great friends with Barbara, and appreciated her contributions to Lee's Traveller over the years. She was always fun to visit with during our reunions and was always willing to help in every way she could when needed.

This is the second week of posting photos from the 1960 yearbook The General. I did not receive any feedback about including them but perhaps someone will speak up this week. Remember, you can use the form below to submit any comments or suggestions you wish to make. It can be done anonymously if you wish.

Comments on Last Week's Issue

Dianne Hughey McClure, LHS ‘64, "I remember well when you came running to my house to use telephone to call police about the wreck you mentioned last week. We had no cell phones."

Photographic Memories - Who Are They?

Each week I plan to share a group of photos from the 1960 "The General" yearbook without disclosing the names of the individuals. You may stop and try to identify them here, and when you are through you may scroll to the bottom of this page to see the identities of your classmates in the photos.

Slow Song Selections

You Picked in the Past

My Special Angel - Bobby Vinton

The song was first recorded by the Sonny Land Trio and released by them in 1957, and was a crossover hit that year for Bobby Helms. "My Special Angel," which Bobby Helms recorded in July 1957, peaked at number seven on the Billboard Hot 100 chart and spent four weeks at number one on the US Country music chart.

Bobby Vinton's version aired in 1963, and is probably the version we relate to more than the others.

The Identites of the Classmates in the Pictures Above