Principals' Update
Happy October!
As autumn officially takes hold and the school-year routine settles in, this month’s spotlight is on what truly makes our school community thrive: empathy. Being a Central Trojan means more than just excelling in academics or athletics. It means showing up for one another with kindness, integrity, and respect.
This October, we are recognizing Trojans who live out our CENTRAL Code by showing Empathy and helping make our school a strong, connected, and welcoming place for everyone.
As part of our CENTRAL Code lessons this month, students will explore what empathy looks like in their everyday interactions. We want students to remember that being empathetic does not mean we have to agree with everyone. It means trying to understand how someone else might be feeling and choosing our words and actions with that in mind.
We will encourage our Trojans to think about empathy in three simple steps:
NOTICE → UNDERSTAND → RESPOND
An empathetic Trojan notices how others may be feeling, tries to understand another person's perspective, listens without immediately judging or trying to fix the problem, and responds with kindness and respect.
Positive Social Action: Displaying socially acceptable, respectful, and supportive actions toward both peers and staff, ensuring our school remains a safe and encouraging environment for everyone.
Building Connections: Actively maintaining positive, constructive, and trusting relationships across our school community.
Communication Skills: Communicating respectfully with staff, students, and community members in every interaction.
When our students practice empathy, they lift up those around them and lead by example. Read on to discover how our Trojans are putting these principles into practice this month and building a culture we can all be proud of!
Here is how empathy and relationship skills show up across our grade levels:
5th Grade (Leading with Kindness): Welcoming new classmates to cafeteria tables, inviting peers to join during recess, and learning to use active listening when working on group projects.
6th Grade (Navigating Change Together): Supporting peers through middle school transitions, speaking up against exclusion, and using respectful language when communicating with teachers and hallway staff.
7th Grade (Building Trust & Community): Showing active empathy by listening without judging, offering help when a classmate is struggling, and resolving peer conflicts through constructive, calm dialogue.
8th Grade (Role Models & Leaders): Setting the standard for the school by offering encouragement to younger students, modeling respectful digital communication, and maintaining positive relationships with staff and community members.
Family Tips for Building Empathetic Students:
Practice Active Listening at the Dinner Table
Focus on listening without interrupting or jumping straight to solutions when your child shares their day.
Try asking: "How did that make you feel?" or "What do you think your friend/teacher was feeling in that moment?"
Name and Validate Emotions
Help your child identify their own feelings and recognize those same emotions in others.
Try saying: "It sounds like you were really frustrated. It's totally okay to feel that way, but let's talk about how to express it respectfully."
Model Respectful Communication
Show your child what constructive communication looks like during disagreement—whether with family members, neighbors, or service staff.
Kids mirror how adults handle frustration, tone, and conflict resolution.
Encourage Small Acts of Positive Social Action
Create simple household or neighborhood routines centered on helping others.
Rake leaves for an elderly neighbor, write a thank-you note to a teacher, or welcome a new family to the community.
Discuss Perspective in Movies, Books, and News
Use stories and pop culture as low-stakes ways to practice empathy.
Pause during a show or book and ask: "Why do you think that character reacted that way?" or "What could someone say to help them right now?"
Set Positive Digital Communication Standards
Talk regularly about digital citizenship, reminding them that tone in group chats, gaming lobbies, and social media matters just as much as face-to-face interaction.
Encourage them to ask themselves before posting: Is it kind, respectful, and supportive?
Thank you for continuing to partner with us on your student’s journey toward becoming a Empathetic Trojan who practices relationship skills.
Dr. Ericka Bush, CIS Principal
Ms. Kim Martin, CIS Assistant Principal