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My wife is not happy with me anymore - What can you do if your wife says she’s not happy with you anymore.
"My wife said she doesn't love me anymore," said the husband feeling confused and fearful. What should you be doing if your wife comes to you and tells you that she's not in love with you anymore? Does it mean that the end of your marriage is in sight or is there still a faint chance that you can save things? There's actually a very good chance that you can transform your relationship with the woman you married and not only get her to love you again, but make her love you more than you thought possible. Don't allow this declaration on her part to derail your marriage, instead use it as a push towards a brighter future for you and her.
If your wife said she doesn't love you don't overreact too quickly. That's much easier said than done but it's important that you consider her state of mind and her emotions when she told you this. If it happened during the middle of a heated conflict, take that into consideration. She may have only expressed it as a way to hurt your feelings as much as you hurt hers. If your marriage has become somewhat mundane and stale, she may have told you that she's not in love anymore because she's just not happy with the relationship in general. Her words, although very hurtful, may have a hidden meaning and it's your job to decipher that.
Just as men can become too comfortable in their relationship the very same thing can happen with women. Unless a couple is putting in a real effort to keep their marriage interesting and fulfilling for both of them, there can easily be an emotional disconnect on the part of one or both of them. Under all their confused and disgruntled feelings, they actually still love one another deeply but they have trouble recognizing it.
It's hard to put in any real effort into your marriage after your wife says she doesn't love you anymore, but you need to if you hope to save the relationship. If you open yourself up to loving your wife more you may find that she'll follow your lead. If she's been feeling unappreciated or devalued as your spouse that can certainly contribute to her feeling less close to you. Begin today by telling her how you feel more often. Go out of your way to do things that you know will put a smile on her face and will also show her how deeply you value her as your life partner. A little effort on your part may pay very large rewards in terms of saving your marriage and making it better than it's ever been before.
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Leadership. It's something no one will ever tell you is NEEDED to have a happy marriage, and yet it is perhaps the one trait that has the power to single handedly 180 your relationship with your wife.
Leadership. It's a trait that men in our time are nearly devoid of, and that women encourage be removed from our personalities, because when one person is a leader that implies that the other is a follower, and no modernist ideology could ever tolerate the idea of inequality.
And yet...Leadership. It doesn't always come easily to every man, but it DOES always come naturally once it gets there.
So what does this mean? Leadership; how do you define it? Why is it so important for a happy marriage? Why is the husband supposed to be the leader?
Well, even though I myself have Biblical reasons for believing the way that I do, I also have science on my side to back me up. In the natural world across almost every single heterosexual species, leadership is the single most important trait to the female when determining a mate. It has always been true and always will be that the female gender - in ANY species - always finds the Alpha Male the most desirable mate.
What does the Alpha Male have that others don't? Universally, the quality is always leadership.
You don't have to look far to find proof...Our closest relatives in the animal kingdom, the Chimpanzees, are an excellent example of this, especially because just like humans they make long-term commitments to their mates. In a tribe of chimpanzees, the Alpha Male essentially has free pick of any female he wants.
This is what I have been hinting at this whole article - Women are BIOLOGICALLY ATTRACTED to the quality of leadership. It's not sexist, it's not chauvinistic...It is literally hard coded into our DNA as surely as our hair color or any other physical trait. The only way that this FACT is ever going to change is through 1,000s of years of evolution.
So, how is this relevant to you? Well, hopefully it is starting to become a little bit obvious, but I will explain it just to make sure that we are on the same page. The thing that you need to understand is this:
When your wife is ATTRACTED to you - And I mean mouth-watering, loins-burning attraction - every single other problem in your marriage will seem secondary to her.
And what is the best way to make your wife ATTRACTED to you in this way?
It is to awaken the leader inside of you that I can almost guarantee is what originally made your wife attracted to you in the first place.
Here are a few qualities that define a leader in marriage:
A Leader is Unwavering in His Love for His Wife and the People Around Him
A Leader is Confidant in Himself and His Marriage
A Leader is Concerned About His Wife's Well Being
A Leader is Able to Make Decisions...And then STICK BY THEM
A Leader is NEVER Afraid of the Future (Important!)
I want you to read through that list 3 or 4 times to make sure that you have a very solid grasp of what being a leader entails.
Remember that being the alpha male - the leader - for your wife is NOT about being physically attractive, charismatic or charming... It's about being confident in YOU.
When your wife can see that you're going to be happy and satisfied with who you are whether she's with your or not, that's going to flip a biological switch inside of her and a happy marriage won't be far behind.
I know that you probably still have a few questions about leading your wife back to a happy marriage, and that's okay! It would be weird if you DIDN'T have any questions.
So this is what I would like to do for you to help you learn more about being a good husband with a wife who loves you and adores you and SHOWS IT to you physically.
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Further Reading:
My Husband Is Withdrawing From Me
My Husband and I Argue Everyday
My Husband Says He Is Miserable With Me
My Husband No Longer Desires Me
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