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I feel unimportant to my husband - I want to feel important to my husband.
A woman has to be adored... no, revered. She has to be placed on a pedestal - at least that's what every woman expects from the man in her life. But what if he's been treating you less than a princess? What should you do then?
Show your most human side.
Though you're a woman, it's no excuse for any man to treat you like a sex object. Show him that you're a woman and that there's more to you than just your sexuality. Show him that you're a human being who also needs to be loved and cherished.
Share your dreams and aspirations.
You are partners so this means that neither one of you is better or higher than the other. You should mutually respect each other. Let your man take a peek into your dreams and hopes. Don't ever think that he's too dumb to understand what you want.
Never be selfish and that gesture will be reciprocated.
No relationship ever flourished if selfishness was a big part of that union. One of the best foundations of relationships is selflessness. Give him what he needs and you would, unsurprisingly, get what you need, too.
Show him no roughness.
If you ever want to be treated with tenderness and respect, you've got to earn it first. How can he respect you if you keep yelling at him each time that you're not pleased with something? How could he treat you with tenderness if you throw things at him when you're very, very mad?
Be the better half.
A better half is called as such because he or she is expected to behave in the best manner. He is the most important person in your life and vice versa, so you've got to make him feel that he's special so that he'd do the exact same thing with you.
Support the man and he'll treat you right.
A woman is supposed to make - not break - her man. She should be the first one to show him love, understanding and gentleness. She should also offer him her full confidence because, in essence, they are one.
Please him as only a woman could.
Make him happy in all aspects. Engage him in intelligent conversations, titillate him with your sexual moves, love him unconditionally, cook the most sumptuous meals for him, concoct surprises that would astonish him. In a nutshell, treat him right and he will also do the same.
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Making your marriage work is something that doesn't come easy and doesn't bear fruit overnight. All relationships require work, but when it comes to marriage, the workload seems even more difficult to deal with. Over time, married spouses tend to neglect to build intimacy, which, when prolonged, creates a void that leaves either party vulnerable to an affair. Regardless of whether it is an emotional or sexual infidelity, such heartbreaking betrayal is extremely difficult to recover from, especially when neither party is willing to see past the events and determine what's best for the marriage. Therefore, preventative maintenance, as with anything else, is the best way to save your marriage from the dangers of infidelity.
Learning to date again is a simple way to rekindle the passion your marriage. Dating requires creativity, exposure, planning and consideration on your part. Going out on dates is exciting, sexy, revitalizing... and just completely engaging and thrilling, especially when you haven't dated in a long time.
Most dates unnerve and frighten us, especially new ones. However, these dates won't. Instead, they should give you pleasurable butterflies in your stomach.
See...You're not going on any random date with some stranger! No! Not at all!
You're going to be dating your husband. Yes, husband - say it with us, hus-band - as in the man you married some time ago. And why not? It's certainly been awhile since you've both taken the time to keep things sexy and flirtatious like the good old days before you started regularly taking each other for granted.
So, start dating your spouse again. Plan specific events to attend together, all with the goal of learning to enjoy each other's company all over again. Make things exciting. Don't just go to dinner and a movie. Choose a small, local restaurant known for delicious entrees yet only enough room for undersized tables and minimal space, forcing you two to sit closer. Rent a lush, expensive Bed & Breakfast that will allow you to make love with the extra novelty of exploring each other's bodies in a "strange", "new" place you've never been before. Try something crazy and new together, like whitewater rafting, or parasailing.
It doesn't matter what you do together, as long as you both are willing to keep an open mind. What's important is that the two of you are enjoying your time together, that each date feels as exciting as the last, if not more. You want to giggle and blush the morning after like a schoolgirl who made out with her boyfriend last night in the backseat of his older brother's '67 Chevy. The excitement, the tension, the novelty of it all - that's what you want, need, to revitalize the stagnancy of your relationship.
Don't forget to psyche yourself up! Remember how you felt when he first asked you out? All those crazy butterflies dancing in your stomach and leaping around inside of you when you first answered "yes" and then immediately began planning what to wear? Think about all the outfits you planned and went through, accessories and makeup and hairstyles you mix-n-matched and played with in order to get the "perfect" look guaranteed to blow him away.
Apply the same level of care you had for your dates with him then to the dates you're going to start having now. Get your hair done, touch up your pedicure and manicure, wax your underarms - whiten your teeth! Look, good, lady! Dress up for him like you actually care about what he thinks - because you do. You care because he's your husband, your man, and he, for the evening, is all yours for as long as you want him.
And...
...Best of all...
You can take him home with you...
...If he's a good boy and all...
.... Cause you know... he is your husband and all, right?
So, to recap our "Help Me Save My Marriage" idea of the day, dating your husband is a great way to reconnect with your spouse and pump up the passion in your marriage. Like we've mentioned, making your marriage work isn't easy... but who says it can't be fun?
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