1.14.11 part 9 It is not just what you do that counts and matters?
You must deal with the underlying feelings, thoughts, and body sensations not just the behavior.
All treatment is self treatment, and all healing is self healing.
Therapy fails for many reasons, among them is that the therapy does not become a way of life and is not practiced consistently by the patient or the sufferer on their own, especially when they are not in the problematic place or when they are feeling better.
Another more subtle reason has to do with the false dichotomies our mind makes between, brain chemistry-biology-genetics, environment, past conditioning and the mind itself plays in causing and perpetuating mental/physical problems that lead to disease, pain, suffering and impairment.
An even more subtle but perhaps even more important dichotomy is that between the minds functions as it relates to thinking and feeling and body sensation as it shows it self in behavior , relatedness and psychosomatic symptoms.
The body sensation-feeling-thought parts need to dealt with as a unity not separate entities. All three motivate behavior or cause problems with relationships or psychosomatic symptoms, and three have to understood and dealt with