Depression

What are the signs of depression?

If you are depressed you might notice some of the following:

  • you feel unhappy, miserable, down, depressed and this feeling just won’t go away and can be worse at a particular time of day, often first thing in the morning

  • you can’t enjoy anything

  • lose interest in seeing people and lose touch with friends

  • can’t concentrate properly and find it harder to make decisions

  • lose your self-confidence

  • feel guilty and unworthy

  • become pessimistic

  • start to feel hopeless, and perhaps even suicidal.

  • feel restless, nervous or agitated

  • feel exhausted and have no energy

  • can’t get to sleep or sleep too much

  • wake early in the morning and/or throughout the night

  • have a headache or stomach upset

  • can’t eat and lose weight or 'comfort eat' more and put on weight.


You may need to seek help if you or a friend or partner notice that:

  • Your feelings of depression affect your work, interests and feelings towards your family and friends

  • Your feelings of depression have been going on for a while and don't seem to get any better

  • You find yourself feeling that life is not worth living, or that other people would be better off without you.


You may need to seek help if you or a friend or partner notice that:

  • Your feelings of depression affect your work, interests and feelings towards your family and friends

  • Your feelings of depression have been going on for a while and don't seem to get any better

  • You find yourself feeling that life is not worth living, or that other people would be better off without you.


How can I try to feel better?

These are some suggestions you can try when you are feeling depressed. It is important that you find what works best for you and create your own list of helpful strategies.

  • Talk to someone: If you’ve had some bad news or a major upset in your life, try not to bottle things up. It can help to tell someone close to you how you feel about it. If you don't feel you can talk to anyone, try writing down how you feel.

  • Keep active: If you are able to, get outside for some exercise, even if it’s only for a short walk. This will help to keep you physically fit and sleep better. It can also help you to focus on other things and not on painful thoughts and feelings.

  • Eat properly: You may not feel very hungry, but try to eat regularly. It’s easy to lose weight and run low on vitamins when you are depressed – or to eat too much junk food and put on weight you don't want. A balanced diet, with lots of fruit and vegetables, can help keep your body and mind healthy.

  • Avoid alcohol and drugs: Alcohol can make you feel better for a couple of hours, but it actually makes depression worse in the long run. The same goes for street drugs, particularly cannabis, amphetamines, cocaine and ecstasy.

  • Create a sleep routine: Try to go to bed at the same time each night and get up at the same time each morning. Do something restful that you enjoy before going to bed, like listening to relaxing music or reading a book. If you can’t sleep, get out of bed and do something calming like sitting quietly on the couch.

  • Try relaxing activities: If you feel tense all the time, try relaxation exercises, yoga, massage, aromatherapy, or another activity you find relaxing.

  • Do something you enjoy: Take some regular time to do something you really enjoy – like playing a game, reading, or another hobby.

  • Read about depression: There are many books and websites about depression. They can help you to understand what is going on, give you strategies to cope better, and can also help friends and relatives to understand what you are going through.

  • Practice self-kindness: You may be a perfectionist who drives yourself too hard. Try to set yourself more realistic goals or expectations. Be kinder to yourself.

  • Take a break: It can be really helpful to get away and out of your normal routine for a few days. Give yourself a break from your daily stress and worries. If you can change your environment, even for a few hours, it can help.

  • Join a support group: It can be hard to help yourself when you're depressed. Talking with other people in a similar situation can help. Have a look at the list of organisations at the end of this leaflet for some ideas.

  • Keep hopeful: Remind yourself that many other people have had depression and have got better, there is help out there and you are entitled to the help you need to feel better.