It’s the start of something new - both for my son and for us as parents. It also, however, feels like the end of an important chapter in our lives. It's not changing everything: we still love him, he still loves us, but I feel the relationship will now change and the question remains as to where does that leave us as parents? I’m also acutely aware that our daughter will be feeling a sense of loss and now the next couple of years, with her at home, have taken on an even greater sense of immense value. Something precious and all too brief.
Our children leaving is altogether filled with deep poignancy. It's a culmination of emotions. There is a particular torment in knowing he is leaving. I know he needs to leave. He needs to make new mistakes and I can’t and should not try to stop him. We all learn from our mistakes and our children need to go on learning. Perhaps it's about changing our roles. Someone once said it's like being a lifeguard. We watch from a safe distance, ready to jump at a moment's notice to help when we are needed most. However, we have reached a pivotal moment in our roles as parents. We have, after all, raised a young man who has grown up to be an incredible person. He is intelligent, happy, wise, and compassionate. He’s my best friend and tomorrow we say goodbye.
We know we can’t hold our children back. It is the underlying paradox of parenthood that we raise our children with one ambition, which is to let them go. The better they leave, the more able they are to cut the strings and have fun, live well and enjoy their lives. The better we’ve done, the bigger the loss because they need us less now. It may be hard to believe but I have come to terms with the fact that he is a young adult with tremendous capacity and potential. I’m excited he’s about to start a new chapter in his life. The planning is complete. The packing has been done - twice. He knows that we are here to support him, albeit from a distance. All I know is that when I see him walk through the security gates tonight, I will be filled with overwhelming pride and joy as I see him go. It will, however, still break my heart.
This week in Economics, Year 10 have been looking at the impact of minimum wage on labour markets. They have discussed the benefits and drawbacks of minimum wages and gained an understanding of voluntary and involuntary unemployment.
The Year 11 students have been hard at work revising for their GCSE and a numeracy assessment later this week.
On Saturday 16 April, the Year 11 GCSE Art and Photography students came in to the Art rooms from 9am to 3pm to complete their sustained outcome. This piece of Artwork concludes two years of hard work. I am delighted with the range and skills demonstrated by the student.
We look forward to welcoming you all to our first GCSE Art and Photography Exhibition in June. Due to exam board regulations, I am unable to share whole pieces with you, so I have included a collage of sections of the students work.
This week in PE, students have been developing their skills in a variety of activities including dance, gymnastics, water polo, badminton and basketball.
During dance lessons, students in Year 7 have learnt choreography for a Bollywood dance, and now they are developing their own choreography to complete their dance.
Students in Year 8 have been developing their choreography skills for a rock and roll dance. Students were taught a set motif and then have choreographed their own hand-jive section and have then continued their own choreography, with some students choosing to incorporate aerial lifts into their routine!
Year 9 students choreographed and completed a stomp dance battle! We saw students creating their own beat through their choreography designed to dance their opponents off the floor.
Year 7 students have also been developing their gymnastics skills since we returned to school. Students have enjoyed demonstrating their excellent flight skills, as well as developing their knowledge of different balances and methods of travel.
It has been excellent to see our secondary students back in the pool, this time focussing on water polo. Students have enjoyed developing their water polo skills and have successfully applied these to competitive situations.
Our Key Stage 3 students have also been completing a block of work on basketball. Students have developed their knowledge of the skills required to be successful when playing basketball and have applied these to competitive situations.
Students have also enjoyed playing badminton in their PE lessons this week. They have mastered their serving techniques and have applied different strategies to competitive situations.
We were thrilled to be able to welcome our families into school last night for the JAS Iftar. It was a very special evening, celebrating all that is Ramadan and sharing the breaking of fast together, surrounded by our JAS family and friends.
The school was buzzing, with lovely crafts, henna, Ramadan wishes and calligraphy activities for the children, a Qaran recital from Humaid in Year 4, a journey around the world from students Ayesha, Leen, Aya, Inaaya and Hadi on what Ramadan looks like in different countries, a talk on the health benefits of fasting from Dr Khatoon, a presentation from Miss Edmondson on the Gulf for Good Ramadan Charity, Fund a Farm and the call to prayer from Mr Safi - not forgetting the legendary Iftar quiz by Mr Hussain.
Thank you to everyone who came along to celebrate with us - we had a wonderful time and hope you did too! A huge thank you to the PTA and JAS staff involved in creating such a special evening.
Continuing with Autism month, this week we will take a close look at autism in girls. Four times as many boys are diagnosed autistic as girls. This is not an accurate picture and frequently, for many reasons, girls are diagnosed later, missed, or misdiagnosed, causing long-term mental health problems with too many girls feeling too anxious to attend school as a result.
This is not a definitive list but details some common traits shared by autistic girls:
Can present contrastingly in different settings; girls can camouflage or mask their feelings until they are in a safe environment before they release their emotions.
May appear to be shy or avoid interacting with others, or struggle to make the first move socially, but are also keen to have friends. They may have one or two close friends but will converse in a rehearsed or scripted manner, desperate to fit in, so will try and hide their difficulties. They can struggle with social niceties and may mimic rather than naturally respond. They may appear awkward during conversations.
Although they make eye contact, it is fleeting and superficial.
Can show empathy and compassion, but may be confused by non-verbal social signs. Can struggle with non-verbal communication such as tone of voice and body language.
Their special interests are usually more socially acceptable and tend to be animals, pop bands, social media, and literature.
Can struggle with changes to routine and may appear anxious.
Might be oversensitive to sensory stimuli such as taste, texture, temperature, noise, smell, and light.
Can find it difficult to moderate feelings when frustrated; this can lead to meltdowns that appear to be disproportionate to the situation.
Can lack confidence in their ability, are afraid of failing, making mistakes, and lack self-belief.
Any speech or language difficulties are usually more subtle, with no language delay.
May have an exceptional memory for dates and facts.
They may be seen as quirky by peer groups because of dress sense, hairstyle, or vocabulary.
This information was taken from a UK-based registered charity called The Autistic Girls Network.
For further information, please have a look at the following websites and podcasts:
Podcast: SEND in the experts with Georgina Durrant (Episode 4)
Mrs. Lyndsay Wing
Whole School Inclusion Leader
JAS students are testing their fitness with the Gulf Youth Sport Ramadan Fitness Challenge this week.
Students from Year 5 and above are invited to take part in a qualifier round in which they complete the Multistage Fitness Test, aka the beep test! The scores will be submitted to GYS at the end of the week who will then rank the top boy and girl in each age group from all of the participating schools.
The finals will see the top twenty athletes in each age group across participating schools to complete five challenges, with each challenge focusing on a specific physical skill.
It was great to see so many students attend the qualifier session this morning. Good luck to everyone participating, go JAS!
Click here for more information on the Gulf Youth Sport challenge.
We are very excited to announce our school Spelling Bee competition for Years 3-12. Happy Spelling!
Children are not born with integrity or the behaviors we associate with it, including humility, social responsibility, and the courage to stand up for what they believe is right. It is derived through a process of cultural socialisation—influences from all spheres of a child’s life. This process begins at home and continues throughout their schooling. For me, integrity is a fundamental human value, it is about being a ‘good person’ and when explaining it to students I often like to use this quote from British Author C.S. Lewis.
Integrity is one of our six core values at Jebel Ali School, the others being Kindness, Resilience, Growth-mindedness, Inclusivity and Excellence. As a community, we strive to embed these qualities to provide a common purpose that all community members may understand, work towards and live by. The best way to ensure that values are present is to convert our values into behaviours. These attitudes and physical actions allow everyone involved to understand the spirit of each value. So what does Integrity look like and what can we do to develop this in our children?
Here are a few helpful hints from Psychologist Marilyn Price-Mitchell, PhD.
1. Articulate family values.
What are your family values? Can your child discuss and defend them? Family values impact healthy child and adolescent development in profound ways. Most families have positive values that are steeped in their cultures or religions. Their values elicit habits of thinking and behaving that honor human strengths, weaknesses, vulnerabilities, and imperfections. Learn why family values should be intentionally articulated and how children learn through a parent’s words and actions.
2. Develop a moral vocabulary.
Words like honesty, trust, fairness, respect, responsibility, and courage are core to centuries of religious, philosophical, and family beliefs. Use them and others to express and reinforce your family values. Teach children the behaviors that flow from these principles. Use quotes to ignite meaningful dinner conversations and encourage children to talk about these values. Check out an excellent list of quotes that were compiled by The International Center for Academic Integrity.
3. Reward respectful behavior.
When children feel good about doing what’s right, they learn to measure the quality of their lives beyond grades and extra-curricular achievements. Parents who let children know that courage, honesty, and respect for others is more highly valued than quantifiable wealth or intelligence help children understand the true meaning of being wholly human. When your children show integrity, tell them what you admire about their behavior.
4. Explore consequences.
Learning integrity takes practice. Like all learning, failure produces consequences. When children explore, understand, and accept the consequences of failure, critical learning occurs. Having integrity doesn’t mean children will always be honest, responsible, or respectful. What it does mean is that they will understand the consequences of their actions on themselves and others and, with that understanding, will make informed choices about how they live out their own values in the world.
5. Respond appropriately.
Parents cannot control their child’s behavior, but they can respond with consistency when reinforcing family values. When learning is considered the foremost goal, dishonest or disrespectful behavior becomes a teachable moment for parents. What’s most important is that your child reflects on and gleans meaning from their behavior. Talk with them. Listen and show respect for your child’s thinking, and then restate your expectations that dishonesty or disrespect is never acceptable in your family. Consequences should be consistent and clearly understood.
6. Be a role model.
Children often name parents as their role models. Research shows that role models live their values in the world. They help children understand how values, like integrity, are part of a successful and rewarding life. Review what you say or share on social media. Does it reflect your values? Is it hurtful to others? Are there more respectful ways to share what you believe? Children are watching and learning from their adult role models. Read about five qualities of role models that matter most to teens.
7. Teach digital etiquette.
More than ever before, parents should teach all aspects of digital citizenship from an early age, including social networking etiquette, digital literacy, and standards of moral conduct. While it is difficult for children to stand up to disrespectful behavior online, they should always know that they can seek support from an adult when they feel threatened, bullied, or fearful. This is one way they can act with integrity and safely stand for what they believe.
8. Share meaningful stories.
Examples of integrity are contained in human stories everywhere. When you read books with your children, listen to stories about their peers, watch TV or movies together, or talk about what’s going on in the world, ask your child to find examples of how individuals stood up for their beliefs in ways that made a difference for themselves or the world around them. Make the topic of integrity part of the conversation!
9. Instill self-efficacy.
Children who stand up for principles in which they believe have high degrees of self-efficacy, the belief in one’s ability to accomplish goals and influence the future. Parents instill self-efficacy in children when they help children be guided by their own internal compasses, allow them to grow from their relationships, and appreciate children for who they are, not just for what they achieve. When young people learn to believe in themselves, dishonesty and disrespect no longer make much sense. Living with integrity becomes a way of life. Read what it means to “believe in yourself,” through words from young people themselves.
Mr. Ben Parnell
Assistant Headteacher - Care & Wellbeing
Climate is the average weather in a place over many years. Climate change is a shift in those average conditions. The rapid climate change we are now seeing is caused by humans using oil, gas and coal for their homes, factories and transport.
When these fossil fuels burn, they release greenhouse gases - mostly carbon dioxide (CO2). These gases trap the Sun's heat and cause the planet's temperature to rise.
What is the impact of climate change?
Extreme weather events are already more intense, threatening lives and livelihoods.
With further warming, some regions could become uninhabitable, as farmland turns into desert. In other regions, the opposite is happening, with extreme rainfall causing historic flooding - as seen recently in China, Germany, Belgium and the Netherlands.
People in poorer countries will suffer the most as they do not have the money to adapt to climate change. Many farms in developing countries already have to endure climates that are too hot and this will only get worse.
How will different parts of the world be affected?
Climate change has different effects in different areas of the world. Some places will warm more than others, some will receive more rainfall and others will face more droughts.
If temperature rise cannot be kept within 1.5C:
The UK and Europe will be vulnerable to flooding caused by extreme rainfall
Countries in the Middle East will experience extreme heatwaves and farmland could turn to desert
Island nations in the Pacific region could disappear under rising seas
Many African nations are likely to suffer droughts and food shortages
Drought conditions are likely in the western US, while other areas will see more intense storms
Australia is likely to suffer extremes of heat and drought
What are governments doing?
Countries agree climate change can only be tackled by working together, and in a landmark agreement in Paris in 2015, they pledged to try to keep global warming to 1.5C.
The UK is hosting a summit for world leaders, called COP26, in November, where countries will set out their carbon reduction plans for 2030.
Many countries have pledged to get to net zero by 2050. This means reducing greenhouse gas emissions as much as possible and balancing out remaining emissions by absorbing an equivalent amount from the atmosphere.
Experts agree that this is achievable, but it will require governments, businesses and individuals to make big changes.
What can individuals do?
Major changes need to come from governments and businesses, but scientists say some small changes in our lives can limit our impact on the climate:
Take fewer flights
Live car-free or use an electric car
Buy energy-efficient products, such as washing machines, when they need replacing
Switch from a gas heating system to an electric heat pump
Insulate your home.
More info on how you could help! Click here
Mr. Sattawat Sonsin
Head of Year 10 and Teacher of Mathematics
Miss Channon joined the JAS team in September 2016. She is an experienced Physical Education teacher coming from Portsmouth in the United Kingdom. She qualified from Chichester University in 2010 with a degree in Physical Education and Teaching. Before coming to JAS she worked in a UK school for three years and another school in Dubai for three years.
Miss Channon has a huge passion for participating in sport and in particular Ultimate Frisbee. She started playing Frisbee at the age of sixteen and represented Great Britain for the first time at the age of eighteen. Since then, Miss Channon has represented GB Women all the way through the junior program to the senior program, her most recent achievement was winning a silver medal at the European championships in 2019. Since living in Dubai, Miss Channon has also founded the UAE Women's Beach team, representing the squad as a player, captain, and coach at two world championships.