Nail cutting can be difficult for children for many of the same reasons haircuts or brushing can be challenging—it involves unfamiliar sensations, a lack of control, and potential fear.
Prepare ahead. Talk about routine for nail cutting before you plan to do it. Pair routine with a visual schedule or first/then. For example, first snack then trim nails
Make nail cutting a regular routine. This will help your child to predict when their nails will be cut and add it to their daily routine. Choose a consistent time to cut their nails (ie: after bath time when the nails are soft). Try to keep routine consistent with cutting nails in the same room, similar lighting and tone of voice
Pair routine with your child's favourite comfort items or distractors (ie: watch a show while holding their stuffed animal)
Offer choice and control. This can be done by letting them choose what hand/foot goes first, which clippers to use, whether they want to clip their own nails (age-dependent). If offering child to cut their own nails, we encourage parents still supervise this
Talk them through each step ("one more finger left")
Hold their hand or foot gently but securely
Pretend to trim a toy's nails outside of regular nail routine, to help with familiarity with tools and routine
Gently touch their fingers/toes without trimming for a few days to build tolerance, if sensitive to touch.
Pair nail routine with a fun activity after (ie: "after we cut your nails we can paint them a fun colour")
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