Learning to get dressed and undressed involves a lot of planning, motor skills, and patience! Occupational Therapist can help support with dressing in many ways, such as breaking tasks into smaller steps, using adaptive tools, targeting specific motor skills, and creating a routine.
Just like all skills, dressing skills develop over time. Independence with undressing skills typically develops before independence with getting dressed. The ages included below are a general guideline.
co-operates in dressing, holds foot or arm out
pulls off hat, mittens and removes socks
likes to pull off shoes
pushes arm/leg through sleeves or pant legs
learns to undress first
removes fastened coat
helps push down garment
finds armholes in sleeves
puts on front-button type coat, shirt or sweater
unbuttons 1 large button
removes pull down pants with elasticized waist
tries to put on socks
puts on T shirt with some assistance
places shoes on feet, (may be wrong feet)
independent with pull down garment
needs assistance to remove T shirt
progressively learns to manage buckles, belts, buttons, zippers and snaps as fine motor and visual motor skills develop
Children usually begin to assist by undressing themselves. This can be a daily routine established at night time before bath, and bedtime, when there is more time and less hurry.
Put together a “dress up trunk” with old clothes and costumes. Try to have items available that have buttons, zippers and other fasteners.
Encourage dressing and undressing a toy doll
There are toys available that help children to learn and practice doing fasteners
Large and flat buttons are easiest to learn on. Once your child has mastered fastening and unfastening these, move to smaller buttons
When helping your child get dressed eliminate distractions and teach each skill separately. Encourage your child to participate in part of the task if they can’t yet do it independently (i.e. engage the zipper but have him/her zip it up)
Some children find it helpful to sit down to get dressed.
Practice with loose clothing that is easy to get on and off.
Pick a time of day when you are not in a rush to get somewhere!
Practice getting dressed in front of a mirror to provide visual feedback
Give lots of praise, encouragement, and extra time as your child becomes more independent.
Backwards Chaining: This strategy involves breaking a task (such as putting on pants) down into multiple steps, and allowing your child to master one step at a time, starting with the last step, and gradually working backwards as they master each step. CanChild has an excellent resource to help provide more information and resources, including a Dressing Workbook: https://canchild.ca/resources/305-dressing-work-book/
Visual task sheets can be helpful in teaching a child the steps of dressing and then building their independence with looking at task sheet to know the next step they can do. Check out our visual tasks for daily dressing, and getting dressed for the outdoors, from summer, fall and winter.
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