Everyone has hopes, dreams, opinions, and feelings. But sometimes not everyone's thoughts and opinions line up completely. People were given free will by God to use so that we could make decisions on our own. Our decisions however do impact others directly or indirectly and based on our decisions we either have positive or negative consequences regarding that decision.
For example a person decides that they want something in a store but either cannot afford it or they just do not wanna pay for the item. the person decides to steal the item which in terms sets off the security alarm alerting the employees who then decide to call the police on you. the consequence here is that you will be arrested for stealing. Another example would be you are standing in line at the store and you notice that the person in front of you dose not have enough to pay for their entire groceries, so you decide to pay for their groceries for them. the consequence here would be that you made that person's day and possibly prevented a person from going hungry. We do not know what is going on in someone else's life so lets not criticize, judge, or jump to conclusions without getting to know someone first.