Ask Thor

For each edition, Thor will present some real world examples of social and emotional struggles we might go through in our lives. Thor will follow up with advice on how to deal with the situation by resolving the issue at hand. These stories might help you!

Anna Piffany: Hey Thor. For the longest time, I’ve wanted to become a director. I was ready to begin applying for creative arts programs and scholarships. But this year I’ve found interest in math and statistics. Sometimes I feel like there’s more opportunities for me there, too. I’m conflicted. How do I go about considering a future major?

Thor: Thanks for reaching out, Anna. There are a lot of things someone should consider when choosing their major, including job placement forecasts, career sustainability, and most importantly, personal enjoyment. It’s difficult for a lot of people to know what they’ll do first, and that’s okay! Many people are in the same boat. Try researching and consulting advisors at your college of choice. And remember, don’t feel tied down to a major - you can change your mind!

Jerry Atrick: I’m struggling, Thor. Graduation is coming up and I’m realizing how much I’ve lost the grasp of the passage of time. Things have gone so fast and I’m not sure how I’ll continue without a defined schedule and clear path. Please help me make some sense of this.

Thor: Jerry, I totally get how you’re feeling. We all heard our graduating year back in elementary school and didn’t think the day would come, but it really hits you. I want you to think of all the opportunities you have now that your time is more open. Whether that be going to gain more educational or vocational experience or even working and investing, I think you’ll realize that this time in your life will be pivotal and hopefully enjoyable. Think forward!

Bill Ding: Thor, I need to know how to deal with ridicule. I’ve been a pretty good student throughout high school but I know that continuing my education is not the path I need to take. I would like to take a construction job after I graduate but my friends are critiquing me for not going to college. Are they right? Or should I explain why I think this path makes sense to me?

Thor: I’m sorry you’re going through this, Bill. Something that’s really important to remember (but maybe difficult to apply all the time) is to be confident in your choices. If you feel your interests are in construction and want to invest your time there, then you should do that. Something I heard once was “if you wouldn’t take advice from someone, don’t take their criticism.” Your friends are in the same situation as you - they don’t know much about the world ahead of them. Trust the process. You will do great.