Social Intelligence
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Social Intelligence Definition
According to VIACharacter.org: ..."aware of the motives and feelings of other people. You know what to do to fit in to different social situations, and you know what to do to put others at ease."
Also: Social intelligence involves two general components:
- Social awareness: what we sense about others
- Social facility: what we do with our awareness
Tip:
Tip:
Stop means stop. Always.
Stop means stop. Always.
Repeating your self over and over and getting louder can drive others away from you.
Repeating your self over and over and getting louder can drive others away from you.
Remember empathy as an important part of social intelligence.
Remember empathy as an important part of social intelligence.
In relationships we coach each other. Sometimes we can share how or why we do things. Examples are: This is me (being nervous) This is me (being embarrassed) etc.
In relationships we coach each other. Sometimes we can share how or why we do things. Examples are: This is me (being nervous) This is me (being embarrassed) etc.
Project 42.movListening-always a good idea.
Project 50.movSeeing hooks to avoid un-needed arguments.
Project 45.movProject 44.movFiguring out "Just Right"
Project 43.movUnder or over use of our strength of social intelligence. Example of humor and bravery.
Project 40.movGiving clearer social cues.
(Keep in mind, the other person still chooses if they will follow what you are asking or wanting.)
Project 46.movAttitude check.
Project 41.movMatching time, place and manner.
Learning to better choose:
Learning to better choose:
Time : Is this the best TIME for my: comment, question, joke, opinion?
Time : Is this the best TIME for my: comment, question, joke, opinion?
Place : Is this the best PLACE for my: comment, question, joke, opinion?
Place : Is this the best PLACE for my: comment, question, joke, opinion?
Manner : Is this the best WAY to do/say this? (Is this the best WAY I give my: comment, question, joke, opinion)
Manner : Is this the best WAY to do/say this? (Is this the best WAY I give my: comment, question, joke, opinion)
Activity: Watch a favorite TV program or film muted and write feelings observed.
Activity: Watch a favorite TV program or film muted and write feelings observed.
-from VIACharacter.org
-from VIACharacter.org
Guess what? Adults are still working on this too!
Tip: Treat others as you would like to be treated.
Tip: Treat others as you would like to be treated.
How do you not liked to be talked to?
How do you not like people to act toward you?
When do people not respond so well?
Can you notice 'hooks'? Being 'baited' in a conversation to argue? Don't take the bait!
The Future: Using research and technology to understand each other. Does this interest you?
The Future: Using research and technology to understand each other. Does this interest you?
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