Playful, bringing smiles, seeing the lighter side.
know who is around you - what might be funny to some may not be funny to all. Be sensitive to your audience.
saying, "I'm just joking" does not make it all okay. You may want to apologize for it, acknowledge you took it too far or not do it again.
you don't have to laugh at all jokes - when you laugh you let the other person know what you like (or don't like)
know the mood of the people around you, and if the place is appropriate to joke around
insulting jokes about things that people have no control over are not funny. Recognize some things are serious.
don't laugh at people when they are hurting
know when the joke is done. It becomes lame when it is over and you are trying to keep it going.
Helpful tips by teachers:
Ms. Clark: Learning to use humor not to offend or be offended.
How do you initiate playfulness with others?
What situations promote your use of humor?
How might you bring your strength of humor into play, relationships, family?
How does your strength of humor support you when stress is high?
How is your strength of humor impacted when you are stressed?
What strength(s) do you combine most with humor?
(above questions adapted from R, M. Niemiec, Character Strengths Interventions, 2018)
Tell me if you are working on one, or when you have completed one!