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MODULE 3 Process --Transformational Coach Technique: Movie of Your Life: :35 on Teleseminar.
IMPORTANT - Do the Process BEFORE reading this below.
Movie of Your Life. Transformational Coach Process.
This is an accepted experience of a "working premise' for a simple working model of mind. Use this if your clients are
new to this experience of 'mind.' What is a 'working premise'? It is a model that is not proven, but if used allows the participant to move from one step or stage of a problem to the next. [An example of this is E=mc2]
This process was taught to me by Milton Ericsson, Ph.D, Robert Fritz, Ph.D, and Brian Allmans, Ph.D.
It has been adapted to the coaching model as we want to focus on the present to the emerging new self.
Follow the script as written.
[IMPORTANT TO NOTE: If you are a certified hypnotherapist, a version of this process may have been used to look at the past movies and/or lives (if you have belief system for this). I do not recommend this for coaching as you cross the line into therapy You must focus on the PRESENT and move forward.]
Movie of your Life: Why is this Coaching Process used? Explanation: access beyond the waking conscious -- beyond ego (3rd row); beyond learned patterns (15th row) and your family, friends, teachers, education, supportive groups, and others…..Now moving beyond to the 30th row where access to Wise Mind, Inner Visionary, Inner Genius, Inner Healer, Super-conscious, Higher Self ~ the 30th row.
[Understanding the conscious - as an awareness of our known present state in the context of 'Coaching.' The unconscious is also a realm of awareness and can at times be described as the emerging unknown...coming to the surface. Various belief systems refer to the conscious states of reality known as the Self, Nothing or Field or Christ consciousness, Light, and other words.
Here, in this simple 'working premise' of the Subconscious, one can access historical patterning and also access the door or gate to super conscious - which is described in many belief systems as the part of you that "knows all, sees all, is all" (Wise Mind, Inner Visionary, Portal to Genius, Higher Self connection, Christ consciousness, mystical realms, angelic realms, etc. The amygdala in current Brain and Nervous System Models when stimulated under mind-mapping will allow the Gate to open gently and easily without engaging 'fight or flight' tendencies. As Coaches, Please remember, that you are the source of information and holding the openness for your clients' that come to you. Therefore, your belief system can and will source the super conscious of most of your clients. [why it is essential to build capacity in your own intuition - through the White Light Process]
Knowing the breadth of world view, can help you understand and hold the positive space for the varied experiences depending on the social and family upbringing that your clients' may bring to you. If they come to you, they are looking for what you may know...be delicate, open, expansive, as they may be beginning their first adventure into a deep and rich inner world.
Some of you may have studied other working models. As a Coach, what is important here, is to allow your client THEIR interpretation of this expanded consciousness IN ORDER to receive:
1. Their VISION or pictures of their next steps, which if you have done the assignments are beginning to emerge as energies and/or words.
2. Their ideal self image, as revealed in this process, [also beginning to emerge]
3. Clarity as they discover more about their future Life by Design...stepping into their own creativity and greatness. (NOTE: Another "working premise" that you may be familiar with is E = MC2 (MC squared)..which is used in physics to access quantum physics, yet it is a formula that cannot be proven in itself).
Transformational Coach Technique: Movie of Your Life: :35 on Teleseminar.
Assignment: The co-coaching assignment is to do the REVIEW [bottom of NEXT page] with your colleagues; since you have already done the process on this week's Movie of Your Life (pictures of the future: VISION, etc.).
Practice Using the "REVIEW" Questions - Practice a review with one of your colleagues.
Read the script out loud twice as you are standing in front of the mirror to remove awkwardness with the script.
--and you may want to practice it with someone you know... or with your colleagues....by going deeper with one area that may be revealed the first time.
[If you are working with someone who volunteered for the REVIEW on the tele seminar call, ask your colleague what might be the next 'going deeper opportunity for them. i.e. more clarity on "Vision", or more clarity on 'self image', and repeat the questions using that as the focus.
Your job as coach is TO HOLD THE SPACE FOR SUCCESS AND POSITIVE ENERGY IN THE FIELD. The client is having incredible discoveries and your job is to allow that to emerge. Breathe...let there be SILENCE...in the SILENCE -- there is a lot going on.
Other co-coaching opportunities: Any of the previous exercises if one of your pod members is in need of help.
Please note: A few people may difficulty visualizing and/or receiving the information for their vision through a technique such as The Movie of Your Life. In those rare situations, you can use the handouts: "HC-1 Questions to Ask Self", "HC-2 Self Discovery Exercise" and the "HC-3 Vision Exercise -LP" attached below. If using this process, instead of the Script: You can ask the client to do the three Exercises on their own and ask them to access their Wise Mind when answering the Questions (you will have taught them this technique as soon as you can, sometimes even doing the Wise Mind in the first meeting if they are in a personal crisis when they come to you.)
Whatever you observe, witness, or receive when working with a client on the Life Movie and Review, IT IS ALL ACCEPTABLE, THERE IS NO RIGHT WAY, THERE IS ONLY THE WAY THAT IS BEING SHOWN TO YOU IN THE MOMENT. Continue to Access the Vision - 'pictures of the Future' through - Wise Mind. Give the client permission to sleep on it, to dream about their Vision, to go to a high geographical place where they can physically see a long distance..top of a hill, high building, park with long view of lake, mountain, etc. ...a favorite place and 'day-dream- about their Vision. Some people get very descriptive. Some people one or two sentences. Some people a short paragraph. It can all be built on and expanded.
Other information: The 'Vision" is emerging. If like in the example in our class tonight when it was quite clear and descriptive already, than an assignment to the Client might be to: Write your DRAFT of your Vision in a narrative paragraph, get as much of it on paper as you can. Allow for more information to come to you while you are writing this out. Or journal in the morning when you wake up.
The Postive Self Image is emerging. An assignment to the Client might be to : Write your DRAFT of your Positive Self Image - in a narrative paragraph, get as much of it on paper as you can. Allow for more information to come to you while you are writing this out. Or journal in the morning when you wake up.
Continue to practice White Light meditation. You may want to sit with pen and paper and quickly take yourself to your "movie" and move from the 3rd to the 15th then to the 30th row very fast. You can do this very quickly..once it has been practiced and reviewed.
Review Module 2 - Wise Mind Process with Marilyn Gordon.
Note: These are the EXERCISES TO DATE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN ASKED to send RESULTS TO ME IN WRITING and also asked to PRACTICE.
Intake Form/Questionnaire. Pre-Module 1 as you signed up for the class.
Agreement. Pre-Module 1 as you signed up for the class.
Wheel of Life. Part of the Intake Form.
White Light Process Session Day 1-21 - Practice
Traits, gifts, talents - Human Metrics. Module 1-2
Wants and Desires - Module 1- 2 part A, and again for Modules 2-3 part B.
Wise Mind Process - Module 2 - Practice..daily
Values Clarification - Values List. Modules 2-4
Movie of Your Life - Experience and do Movie of Your Life Review. Module 3
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