Dealing With A Miserable Wife: Why Is My Wife Never Happy With Anything I Do

Dealing with a miserable wife - Why is my wife never happy with anything I do.

Are you having a tough time right now because your wife is unhappy?

If you are then you're not alone and certainly not the only that's ever been in that same position.

I've been there myself (more than a few times) and want to tell you about some things I did...

What to Do If Your Wife Is Unhappy...

So your wife is unhappy and you're worried that she may never come out of it.

You're worried because the things that you've tried haven't worked and now you don't know what the heck to do.

I've been there, and I know it's not fun. My wife and I had some really bad periods, and she wasn't just unhappy, she downright was miserable. So if I could break away from that then we can surely get you through it.

So here are 3 Essential Things to Do If Your Wife is Unhappy...

Most husbands will make some serious mistakes when their wife is unhappy and will actually screw things up worse. I did at first, until I got really good advice of what to do, and I truly turned things around.

First - Don't Panic!... All too often, as soon as something goes wrong, or just doesn't seem right, us husbands will panic! This is because it seems like something we can't control right away.

But you have to remember that things aren't always going to be on the upswing. Marriage is a rollercoaster ride. No, let me rephrase that...it's THE roller coaster ride of all roller coaster rides, so there's going to be times when things are going to be wacky and on the downward slope, rather than running smoothly and straight ahead.

Panicking will get you nowhere but in more trouble, because it will basically just cause you to do something dumb.

Second - Listen... Very often my wife wouldn't tell me what was wrong. Why she did this I haven't a clue. But from what I've heard from friends, and other people who come to me for marriage advice is that this isn't something unique to my wife.

But the problem is that as husbands...as men...we don't learn to read between the lines. Women don't always communicate their problems as straight forward as men. So we're left guessing what the heck it is that's wrong that we're supposed to be fixing. Yes, if you're like me, you're always trying to fix whatever's broken. When you don't know the problem it can be pretty darn frustrating right...especially when there's no owner's manual to refer to.

But if your wife is unhappy, even if she's not saying why, she will likely give you plenty of clues. You just have to listen for them, and look for them. It could be a passing comment that you made. It could be something that's bothering her about herself or her life. Maybe she's not feeling appreciated (one of the main causes of divorce). There's a lot of stuff that could be affecting her feelings and making her unhappy.

Third - Don't Get Mad... Man it can be so frustrating when you wife is unhappy and not treating very well because of it. Especially if you don't feel like you deserve that treatment. Especially if you don't even know why the heck she's unhappy.

Naturally in that frustration it's easy to get mad and begin to lash out. It's easy to tell her that she's being an idiot. But of course that does nothing but make the problem worse. That does nothing but make her unhappier!

The thing to do is keep your composure, keep calm, and try to see if you can't help her through the problem. Try to get her to talk about it. Let her know that you're concerned and that you want to make her happy. She'll appreciate that.

It's easy to do the wrong things when your wife is unhappy, but now that you know what you SHOULD be doing you can begin today to get her in a happier place.

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One thing that is a given in almost any relationship is a bit of hurt and pain. At times this is done on purpose when one in the couple decides to be mean or cruel. At times though this hurt can happen on accident. Watch out for what things you might be doing that is hurting your spouse.

The first is being unimpressed by gifts that you get. While there are moments when the gift might not be too thoughtful, you need to be sure to consider the other person's perspective. If he or she did put some thought into it, you can't come off as a brat as you are going to hurt them.

You need to learn to appreciate simple gestures. He or she might be going out of their way to do something for you that's simple. These need to be pointed out and appreciated.

Sometimes things in life come up. You might get busy with worked and stressed out. At times these change your overall normal patterns. Don't change patterns too much without at least letting him or her know how you are feeling.

If you complain about his or her faults all the time, they are going to hurt. You don't need to be with someone if you are going to complain about them all the time.

At times there is some unintentional hurt if the focus that used to be on the relationship is no longer there. You might have used to do things for him or her. When you suddenly stop and never do this again, it can make the other person wonder and even hurt.

Sometimes you can get lazy in a relationship. This means that you just aren't putting in the same effort that was once there. If you do this, the other person might wonder what is going on and why things have changed so much.

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Further Reading:

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