Introductory Courtship

In a traditional Yoruba introduction ceremony, also known as the "Introduction Ceremony," the bride and groom's families formally meet and discuss the proposed marriage, often with gifts exchanged and the groom's family presenting a dowry list. 

Here's a more detailed explanation:

• Purpose:
  The introduction ceremony is a crucial step in the Yoruba wedding process, marking the formal introduction of the two families and their intent to unite their children in marriage. 

• Timing:
  The ceremony typically takes place at the bride's family home, often a few months before the wedding, but can be done closer to the wedding date as well. 

• Attendees:
  Both extended family members of the bride and groom's families are expected to attend, ensuring a broad representation of both sides. 

• Activities:

  • Formal Introductions and Greetings: The families formally introduce themselves and exchange greetings, signifying mutual respect and goodwill. 

  • Gift Exchange: The groom's family presents gifts to the bride's family, symbolizing their commitment and respect for the union. These gifts can include bags of rice, sugar, yams, fruits, drinks, a wristwatch, lace fabric, and even a female goat. 

  • Dowry List: The bride's family presents the groom's family with the "Eru Iyawo" list, which outlines the items required for the wedding dowry. 

  • Date Setting: The families discuss and agree upon a date for the wedding. 

• Significance:
  The introduction ceremony is not just a formality; it's a celebration of family unity and the beginning of a new chapter for the couple and their families. 

• Modern Adaptations:
  While some families still adhere to the traditional format, others have adapted the ceremony, turning it into a mini-wedding celebration with the couple wearing matching outfits.