• Accurately perceive-safety (over perceive danger:)
• Self-regulate (attention, behavior, emotion)
• Hold a self image that includes the belief that they matter
• Succeed academically and or socially at school
• Disrupt the ability to process verbal information and use language to communicate. (May make it difficult to follow instructions.)
• Be less skilled in using language to forge social relationships and more skilled using language to build walls between themselves and those perceived to be dangerous or threatening.
• Have limited problem solving skills.
• Struggle with sequential ordering and therefore not be able to organize (thoughts, feelings, if-then events, multistep tasks) which in turn results in difficulty reading, writing and with critical thinking. Interfere with a student's understanding of behavior and consequences.
• Not have internalized cause and effect relationships. This means that they cannot easily predict events, sense their power over events or make meaning of "consequences."
• Struggle to see the world from the point of view of another.
• Struggle to focus and attend to what is happening in the classroom because their brains are preoccupied with ensuring safety /warding off danger.
• Struggle to self regulate their own attention.
• Struggle to self regulate and recognize emotions. This results in poor impulse control, trouble reading social cues, and lack of a predictable sense of self. (Self regulation is a predictor of academic success)
• Have low executive functions.
• Be slow to trust adults or peers
• Struggle to engage with academic material effectively
Inability to focus
Deep withdrawal
Very wary, suspicious, not trusting
Apparently random body movements (getting out of seat) and blurting out
Lack of impulse control
Inability to sit still
Repetitive behaviors
Appear anxious (twirls hair, sucks thumb)
Clingy/Needy
Lack of boundaries (hugging strangers)
Over-reaction to peer movements
Extremely acute awareness of any negative body language
Misinterpretation of events, where the child feels that their actions caused the problem
Explosive behavior that does not have clear cause
Trouble with transitions
Trouble with any change in schedule
Pains, body complaints, nurse visits Aggressive (physical/emotional/verbal)
Avoidant behavior (not coming/refusing to participate or go places)
Taking time to teach routines
Posting schedules
Practice transitions
Pay attention to which parts of transitions are hard for the student and work together to create solutions. (Non verbal signals, advance warning etc.)
Lead classroom respectfully (Kind and Firm)
Establish clear agreements about classroom behavior with your students Teach the students how to follow them by regularly checking in with them about how they are doing and asking them to silently make improvements. ("How are we doing on our agreement to have quiet during reading? Thumbs up/sideways/down. Take a breath and notice if there is one thing you can quietly do to make it better. Please do it. Thank you")
Warning the student of potential "surprises" including fire drills, guests, substitutes, schedule changes, new seating arrangements
Connecting with the student each day in a similar fashion
Small connection rituals (hand shake/high five)
Give the student control where possible. {I'm changing the seating chart, do you have a place in the classroom that feels best for you?)
Whole class activities involving patterns of motion
(Regular motion/rhythm/music helps re-establish helpful connections in the lower brain.)
Keep your mood relatively stable. If you are having a bad day explain why to the students ( or they may think you are mad at them)
Inconsistency, irregular behavior
Allowing bullying, name calling
Requiring students to present from the front/read aloud to all.
Punishments or threats
Angry outbursts in class
Surprises (even "good" ones)
Not keeping promises or appointments
Not following through
What do you know about this student's family?
What do you know about this student's history at school?
What do you know about his/her culture? (Unspoken rules about eye contact, personal space, gender roles, role of the individual vs. group)
They may be missing a sense of: Basic Trust
Self-regulation
Ability to delay gratification
Causal thinking (poor if/then thinking)
Ability to focus or concentrate
Relationship skills
Often have altered stress response
• Decreased perception of safety (misperceive threats)
• Poor impulse control
• Decreased self regulation
• Decreased self concept
• Are withdrawn or aggressive
• Struggle with transitions
• Routines
• Consistency (of routines, mood of class leader)
• Posted schedules
• Solutions instead of consequences
• Brain in the Palm of the Hand
• Self-regulation
• Connect before correct
• 2x10 rule
• Mirror neurons
• I messages
• Relationship/relationship/relationship
• Focus on strengths
• Remember the student's story
• Understanding the brain (teach mirror neurons, Brain in the Palm of the Hand)
• "I made a mistake" vs. "I am a mistake"
• Teaching repairs, how to make amends
• Find way for student to contribute, helping)