Sobriety for Co-Dependency
The key to co-dependent sobriety is learning how to have healthy relationships and how to establish and enforce appropriate boundaries that we may accurately establish where we end and another person begins
I can recognize co-dependent sobriety when have not actively sought to control or manipulate others, given unsolicited advice, or based my self-concept on the well-being or approval of others,
White working toward co-dependent sobriety I'll make a faithful commitment to consistently work the program, which includes working or having worked through the CR Step Study Group, steady attendance at the Friday night meetings, service, and accountability to a Sponsor and Accountability Partners. We advocate journaling, daily inventory, transparency, and rigorous honesty
Sobriety for Sexual Addiction
For the unmarried Christian, sexual sobriety means having no form of sex with self or with anyone else.
For the married Christian, sexual sobriety means having no form of sex with self or with anyone other than his or her spouse. The married person may need to consider a season of abstinence from sex with his or her spouse, especially early in the recovery process
And for everyone, sexual sobriety means seeking and achieving progressive inner sobriety.
Sobriety for Co-Dependency in a Relationship With a Sexually
Addicted Person
A state of confidence resulting from a reliance and trust in God
. Focusing on God and relying on Him to meet my needs
Letting go of control and trusting God for the outcome
Not taking responsibility for the addict's behavior or recovery
Allowing the sex addict to be responsible for his own actions and recovery-no rescuing
Being honest with myself about my need to be in recovery
Minding my own business; no checking up on or spying on the addict, trusting that God will reveal any necessary information
A commitment to growth through prayer, educational reading, and accountability
Sobriety for Physical/Sexual/Emotional Abuse
Our definition of sobriety is to discover our purpose, to build our self esteem, and to repair any damage done. We will allow ourselves to feel our feelings, to accept them, and learn to express them appropriately.)
We will not partake in any addictive or self-destructive behaviors that so easily entangle us. We will not allow the pairs of our past to keep us as victims but grow from God's healing. In order to change, we as survivors of physical, sexual, and/or emotional abuse cannot use history. as an excuse for continuing our destructive behaviors
Sobriety for Food Issues
Sobiety means have not overeaten compulsively, binged/purged. starved myself/over exercised, or engaged in any ritualistic eating pattern, Rather, I have released control of my food and way of eating to the control of God and sought to eat in a sane and healthy manner
Sobriety for Anger
Sobriety means I have not lashed out at others or harbored ill will toward others but have taken appropriate steps to forgive others and resolve conflicts. have also not shut down emotionally, giving in to depression, which is anger turned inward.
Sobriety also means working or having worked through a CR Step Study Group, steady attendance at the Friday night meetings serving, and accountability to a Sponsor and Accountability Partners.
Sobriety for Chemical Dependency
In order to attain sobriety from chemical addiction I need to abstain from alcohol and all drugs one day at a time and continue to apply the recovery steps and principles in my life.
Sobriety for Financial Issues
Living by God's Financial Guidelines:
Tithe 10% Save 10%- Living on 80%
Sobriety for the Gambling
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