While reading a book, relate it to something that you and your child have experienced. You can use phrases like "this reminds me of the time we..." or "remember when this happened to us?".
Relate the story you are reading to other stories you have previously read. Point out the similarities and differences. You can use words like "both", "different", "similar" to compare and contrast the two stories.
Talk about the general message or lesson of the story. You could say, "this story is helping me understand that..." or "I am learning that...".