Proper 19 Yr A
Through the sea

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Published date 9/13/2023

Editor's note: During the season of Pentecost, churches that use the Revised Common Lectionary have two options. One, often called "semicontinuous" or "Track 1", provides more detail about the Old Testament stories. The other, called "complementary" or "Track 2", more closely marries the Old Testament lesson to the gospel reading. 

Introduction

Forgive—pretty simple, right? Yet “forgive” is multifaceted. 

First, forgive who? We easily see “forgive those who do us wrong”. But, does that mean intentional or only unintended offense? If a person "meant" the offense, is it really worse than if they didn't mean it? [Ed.'s comment: why didn't the offender think through the consequences?]  

How about forgive and forget? This one usually gets sticky when the offense is repeated (in particular for me). If you take my stuff without asking, I can overlook and forgive that. But what if it has become your habit? Do I still forgive? And do I really forget? In these instances, I usually proceed with great caution in my dealings with the offender. 

What about self? Many can forgive offenses of others but what about our own faults and missteps? Years ago, I behaved in a way I don't tell anybody about. How long do we hold ourselves accountable for an error in judgment in years past? What's the magic number of years for forgiveness?

So, obviously, forgive is not so simple. And then our dear Lord Jesus says to forgive "seventy times seven" [in this rare instance, the editor prefers the King James Version of "seventy times seven" because you have to think about what that is]. One commentator notes that “70” is perfection so “70 x 7” means completely. How will you forgive completely? repeatedly? yourself and others? 

Comments welcome.

Matthew 18:21-35

Peter came and said to Jesus, “Lord, if another member of the church sins against me, how often should I forgive? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy-seven times. . . . And in anger his lord handed him over to be tortured until he would pay his entire debt. So my heavenly Father will also do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”

From King James Version

Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. . . . And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him. So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.

From sermon4kids.com: “Wow! Seventy times seven! That’s four hundred and ninety times. I think that before I got to four hundred and ninety I would lose count. You know, I think that is probably what Jesus was trying to get Peter to understand and he wants us to understand it too. We shouldn’t worry about keeping count of how many times we have forgiven someone—we should just keep on forgiving. Isn’t that what God does? He doesn’t keep count of how many times he has forgiven us. He just keeps on forgiving.”

Scripture: September 17, 2023, Proper 19 (Pentecost 16) Year A—Track 1: Exodus 14:19-31 (image); Psalm 114 (image); Exodus 15:1b-11,20-21 (image); Track 2: Genesis 50:15-21 (image); Psalm 103:(1-7), 8-13 (image); Romans 14:1-12 (image); and Matthew 18:21-35 (image). Illuminating the scripture, an image and audio journey.

Collect: O God, because without you we are not able to please you, mercifully grant that your Holy Spirit may in all things direct and rule our hearts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Reflection:
Track 1: Forgiveness is a hard thing. When has someone forgiven you? Is there someone you need to forgive or ask forgiveness? 

Track 2: Why is my forgiveness of others so connected to God’s forgiveness? Is every sin forgivable?

Source: Feasting on the Word Worship Companion: Liturgies for Year A, Volume 2 © 2014 Westminster John Knox Press.

Eye Candy:
Parable of the Unmerciful Servant by Jan van Hemessen;
Forgiving by Jan Richardson
"Forgive image" from the Wellness website

Ear Worm:
Forgiveness contemporary by Matthew West;
instrumental music for forgiveness and transmutation;
How deep the Father’s love for us by Stuart Townend

Brain Food:
To forgive poem by Steve Garnaas-Holmes;
self-guided retreat by Rev. Suzanne Guthrie,
"Forgiving debt and lending money" by Pastor Ray;
"10 mistakes you need to forgive" from Wellness website

Parables:
"Changing Lanes" (2002, R)—I have recommended before but had not seen. I have seen in part—it is excessively hard hit to the emotions, Review;
"Magnolia" (1999, R), those who try too hard often miss the mark, Review;
Angela’s Ashes” (1999, R), “I wondered how my brother and I survived”, "soul-shattering effects of poverty", story of immigrants returning to Ireland following the death of their 7 year old daughter, Review;
"Women talking" (2022, PG-13), "do nothing, stay and fight, or leave", Review.

Hymn Notes: A few tidbits about "They'll know we are Christians" (referenced above): 

". . . Like many post-Vatican II hymns, “They’ll Know We Are Christians by Our Love,” a favorite song during the folk mass of the later 1960s and 1970s, has reached beyond its Roman Catholic origins. Don Saliers notes in his article, “Vatican II and Its Influence on USA Hymns and Hymnals,” that songs such as “They’ll Know We Are Christians by Our Love” accent the connection between the church’s song and its role in the life of the world (Saliers, n.p.). . . .

"Peter Scholtes, a Catholic priest serving at St. Brendan’s parish on the South Side of Chicago in 1966, penned “They’ll Know We Are Christians by Our Love” when he could not find a suitable song to accompany a series of ecumenical and interracial events for which the youth choir he led was to sing (Daw, 303). Like many songs coming out of the popular folk music of the 1960s, “They’ll Know We Are Christians by Our Love” connected to the societal upheaval of the decade. Alongside popular protest songs like Bob Dylan’s “Blowing in the Wind” or Pete Seeger’s “Where Have All the Flower’s Gone,” Scholtes’s text connected the faith story of young people disillusioned with the landscape of American culture (Loftis, 142). . . "

from Discipleship Ministries website.

For families: Study guide and activities, (former guide), group activity, snacks, kid video

For children: See family guide/activities (other activity); bulletin, craft

For middlers: See family guide/activities (other activity); bulletin, craft

Coloring: Exodus 14, Forgive others

For youth: Many of us are all too well acquainted with being judged at school, in sports, or even by family members. Think for a minute about that experience, what it feels like to be judged. In the Romans’ lesson, Paul reminds us that “If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s.” Our worth is not defined in how others judge us, but rather in the simple fact that we belong to God. Whether you’re fond of bacon or kale, Indie rock or country, baseball or lacrosse, your worth comes from your status as God’s childnot your appetite, your clothes, or the car you drive. How might you extend God’s grace to others? 

(excerpted from “The work of forgiveness”, Stewardship of Life website)

Comments welcome.

We continue to read from the section of Matthew’s Gospel, which deals with God’s forgiveness and our role in extending His forgiveness to all people. Peter asks Jesus how many times he is to forgive someone who wrongs him. In a parable, Jesus explains that God’s forgiveness of us lays on us the obligations to forgive our brothers and sisters unconditionally.

Track 1. The first reading brings us to the most important event in the story of God and the people of Israel. God saved them from the Egyptian army at the sea. The people were led to safety and freedom. Jesus spoke of his own death and resurrection as his Exodus. We join him in that Exodus as God leads us to salvation through the waters of baptism.

Track 2. In Genesis, we have the example of Joseph, who finds it within his person to forgive his brothers, despite the atrocities they perpetrated on him as a boy. He also provides us with an example of the way in which unexpected events can work for good in God’s purpose.

In our final reading from Romans, Paul calls on Christians to refrain from judging one another. The differences between the ways various ones of us follow Christ are to be accepted. Our responsibility is to love God and each other.

We are a community marked by faith and obedience to God’s Word. Our life reflects our relationship with God and our relationships with each other. We are to be a community marked by acceptance of all and by forgiveness. Not a gathering of perfected saints—we are, rather, a gathering of sinners who have known God’s love and forgiveness and who in turn extend that love and forgiveness to all people.


From The Rite Light: Reflections on the Sunday Readings and Seasons of the Church Year. Copyright © 2007 by Michael W. Merriman. Church Publishing Incorporated, New York.