Privacy around Spirits

Q) CE reader who is learning to channel and use his clair abilities emailed me last night; "I am having a hard time keeping spirits from interacting with me while I am changing. I want my privacy. I can't seem to get them to stop. I concously know my guides and spirits are around me and make it a point to say out loud that I would like some privacy, for everyone to step out of the room for a bit and when I am done I will yell back for them. Normally I can feel the spirits step out of the room. But lately it seems to be a real problem to get that privacy."

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Well, as you intellectually know. We are never alone, nor have we ever been alone. In your case I would hazard a guess that you typically have anywhere between 6- to a dozen entities in and out of your "presence" at any given time. I don't like to use the word, "with" or "house" because this 3d world as it relates to the spirit dimensions is illusion. What's going on is that they are entering your presence energetically, or visa versa. Think the movie matrix. "do you think that's air your breathing, that you really exist in these walls?

So these entities or consciousness's are typically guides, Angels, and relatives from past and present and previous lives. In addition to these, there is typically twice that in which you have connections to because you are soul mates or energetically connected to through love or what not. Then you are connected to members of one or more soul groups which could be a few dozen on up to thousands of individual consciousness. Not to mention, "non-human" and "animal type" or even nature spirits or beings.

And I promise you, that much of the time, they are in no way "tuned into" your physicality. What they are "viewing" is your energy and emotions and thought forms. Now that's not to say that your guides, relatives/loved ones, and Angel/s don't see you physically. They do. It's part of the deal. They are your bouncers, back up singers, teachers and care takers. In fact a good proportion of them, have been family to you if not in this life, past lives. As Erik says, "I know you better than you yourself right now".

For example, My guide has been my mother before in a past life. Erik has been my brother. On that level of intimacy they've seen it all. As spirits, they still see it all. Not only that, my mind is an open book for them. There are no secrets, there never has been any. I promise you, the do not care one i-ot-ta, what exactly you are doing. No judgement. What they care about is the emotional and thought energy you assign to what your doing.

The key difference between you and the average Joe, is that you are now aware of all this. So, what does this mean here on out? Well, such experiences are not going to go away. What you can do is focus your intent and conscious awareness so that you can learn over time to block the signals you do not wish to tune into. ie. ignoring them. Or you can have a one on one talk with your GA (guardian angel), to police who you interact with. But you must be very specific on a regular basis. Because you higher self wants you to expand in psychic and spiritual experience. So on occasion it might over-ride your ego's personality (fear). Or you can look at and change your beliefs, or how you feel about your beliefs.

Of course you can act out verbally, energetically, or emotionally. There are techniques to shoo them away, so to speak. But some of that is illusion, and some of it rude and mean. And depending on whom you interact with, such actions will have little to no effect or may cause undesirable effects. It's better to go straight to your GA for help, or work with the individuals as an adult.

Now as far as this incident goes. If it was Erik... He does have a tendency to beat a joke, prank or silliness to death, regardless of what anyone says. I gave up a long long time ago about shooing him away, because it only eggs him on to make poop jokes or some other rude thing. Sure it can be annoying at times, but I am just grateful I am not as sensitive as Jamie or Robert. Roberts house can be like the bus depot with spirits coming and going in his awareness.

Here is the key. Spirits are what you are. They are sentient emotional self aware consciousness (most of the time). They like you deserve to be treated with respect and consideration. But at the same time, they can be like any family. Little siblings, friends, neighbors, etc. And when we operate in the realm of illusion and duality, we are often interacting from a place of separation. It's important to know that sometimes, they have a hard time helping us keep the illusion.

But I know what you mean. If I had a penny for every time someone followed me into the bathroom while I am on the pot, I'd be rich. My usual response is a big sigh, followed with, "Do you mind?" followed by their yammering at me....Erik always says in such moments we are less distracted and easier to communicate with. (rolls eyes)....