Can you have human sex in the afterlife

A CE reader asked the follwing in the forum: Can one have human style sex in the afterlife?

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Sort of new here. Mostly lingering around. I just had a question about sex. I know, I am being a bit unconventional, but after reading some threads and books, I see that sex is somewhat of a bad thing for some people as they are consumed by it.

For me, I am generally passionate about women so I wonder, even though we don't have a physical body, and there is love in the afterlife, can we still explore sexual fantasies in human fashion to experience the thrills? Rather than being stuck in a hellish realm, can we chose to create our own environment, and have other entities participate in our fantasies?

Could a man who can simulate his body any way in the afterlife, have a car trip with helpers disguised as beautiful women on a scenic journey to get explanations of the afterlife rather than simply sit on a park? Just curious. If anyone knows the answer, it will be great!

I realize that everyone has love in the afterlife but rather than a state of being, can we not extend it to an expression of intimacy based on human principles of lust? Thank you!

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The short answer is yes, but it depends on you.

This is a really great question. One that everyone wonders about, but few want to ask. It's not a simple of a question as we on earth would tend to think. There are a several ways to approach this and many other similar questions. Namely, how does the dis-incarnate see their own beliefs, perceptions, perspectives and what is their intent. And, how do they feel about it. With a few exceptions, when you die your personality does not change that much. Who you are as always depends on actualizing your focus. So to ask such questions with some of the words you use, we'd first need to look at the value your placing on certain keywords. Such as, "I see that sex is somewhat of a bad thing"..... (According to whom? Who gets to decide?); "Consumed by it" .....(In what way? Is there a bigger picture? What happens before and after? What does it mean?); "Human passion about a certain gender"...(how many lives have you led as either gender? Can you be passionate about non form?); What is the nature of love, sex, and fantasies? What is the nature of consciousness? How do you, define a hellish realm as opposed to anther persons view? Is either view valid?

OK, I know this all makes me sound like a sort of like a pain the As*, but what I am getting at is that what we believe tends to go with us unless it was a part of our pre-life planning. And what and how we focus on, in the hereafter is intensified, until we decide that what we focus on is not for us, or us. If on the other hand, what you focus on makes you happy, and you like it, and you identify with it, then for now, that is how you see yourself, and that's fine. No enlightened being is going to judge you for it. Are there those in the after life who will frown on you? sure. Just like here. If your stuck in a strong belief system, for a time, you will co-create that reality. Just as you can co-create a hellish environment you can co-create your special rules, and regulations on your compound out in God's country so to speak. It's totally up to you.

Ok back to sex... Woo hoo! ha ha. kidding. On the other side, there are many many ways of expressing not only love, but shared pleasure. What is wigging you out are those stories, of people who on earth were so obsessed with sex that it turned self destructive, an addition in the worst way. On the other side, they take that with them, and what they focus on is drawn to them. So thus, the stories of hellish never ending orgies and who knows what else... But, what if you just enjoy it, and still want to participate in it? Can you? Yes. Are you limited to a certain dimensions or "special place"... well, it depends on your awareness. Are you experienced enough with who you are to create your own pocket dimension or manifest your own reality? Or will you used someone else's thought forms and constructs? Or will you use the per-made reflections on the astral planes? And sooo much more.. If physical constructs are something you greatly desire, you can have at it. If that's what you desire, there will be souls lined up at your door for you. you wont even have to ask. Then again, you are not limited to "human" sex. There are many non-physical manifestations and experiences as well. Picture two approaching storms mixing.

Now there is some difference in perception based upon degrees of spiritual experience, evolution, and expansion. As you advance the general trend is to move away from a physical point of view and express unity and wholeness without some of the more physical pleasures or fear based ones. Lust tends to be possessive and fear of loosing something because of perceived separation or illusion. That's not to say right or wrong, in experiencing it, it's just that on the higher levels there is not so much interest.

So, I bet you wonder what Erik thinks? hmm? ha ha.. Robert and I frequently crack jokes with Erik in perverse humor..... What begins as teasing each other, turns into antics of the most absurd jokes. Erik has been known to get carried away with T and A jokes and visuals. But, I know for him and Jill that sex is more about energetically sharing their-selves with each other. Merging all that they are, were, and will be into each other. From what they say, such experience is far better than anything we can conceive of in the physical. In the non physical you share your very essence, all of who you are. But, if you want the phsycial experience, you can recreate if it floats your boat, car, carriage, hotel room, picnic, hell, beach, heaven, whatever...

Here are some quotes that my Spirit team has given me about intense human emotions like passion and love.

"When you feel such intense human passion, lust, drive, it's not that they are somehow bad, wrong or outside of you controling you; It's that they are a tool to help you focus on what's behind your emotions. What can you come to understand about yourself as a result of them. Some of the passion you are feeling is the passion for the potential you see in yourself and we see it in you as well. To the degree you dive in and recreate yourself in every moment is the passionate zeal you have for life. That's what drove you to live this life. We in Spirit can feel this even when you can not. We see and feel every part of you that is joined in this united effort. This is what gives us such joy. To be connected to such energy, such vibrancy, such light. When you and everyone can come to terms with your inner passion for just being, you too will know a true zeal.

To know the touch of another is to know some of the love you can give. To know that you carry them in your heart is to know your love for them. But to know they carry you in their hearts is to know that we are one."