How to do right by others

Q) Dear Erik, You and others are here to guide folks and help them out. I can really feel that and I want to make sure I am doing the right thing. I don't want to disappoint any of you up there. I wanna do right by you.

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"If you do right by you, you will be doing right by me....so--you are doing right...right??...then, I'll do right by you. See, its not that you do what you "think" I want or need its that you try to approach life out of love as opposed to fear, doubt, worry or expectation. Don't try and judge what you think others feel. Try to live the best you can day to day from joy, happiness, love, in line with how you see your highest Possible self. If you feel resistance, anxiety, or turmoil, it's not necessarily that your wrong or need a direction, it's often that you need to look closer, understand, and accept. There is a certain degree of 'learning to surrender' to what you can do as opposed to what you feel you may lack. Lack is about separation and you will never find anything outside of you to make you whole. You have to look within at what you do have and explore ways to celebrate it with acceptance that you are worth sharing. You can not take from life what you are unable to give. What ever it is you emotionally seek, it is what you have to give or understand about yourself."