Often when a struggle or obstacle gets thrown into our life, the first instinct is to complain and be ungrateful for what is happening. Life doesn’t happen for no reason. When an obstacle comes into your life, take it as a lesson to teach you something about yourself. Instead of complaining about the obstacle and the damage it may have caused, look at it from the other side. Is there something I need to improve? Do I need to learn to control my temper and not react so quickly? What can I do to make sure I lessen the chances of this happening again? All these questions will help you improve your insecurities. No flower grows without rain.  

If you ask anyone, most people would say they want to have their life organized. Organization will allow you to have more control of your life. However, the only thing we can control is how we react to what happens in life. Change is inevitable. People change, plans change, obstacles that come into life change. If life were a straight line, that would not allow for growth or success. Change is what separates everyone as an individual. Instead of rejecting change, embrace it, and use it to channel your inner creativity to resolve an issue.