East Bay: Jane-R Interviewed by Jane-P
Talking about
Current Family
Grew up Family
Grew-Up Family
No one listed to me
parents didn't know how to deal with ?
I didn't feel heard and got laughed at
I had deep empathy for my siblings and mother
father was strict and lost his temper
All siblings (brother, sister) had struggles
I had to help them with their problems
Empathy is a burden if you don't get it back
Current Family
try to be open
I'm in touch with feelings
focus on husband and daughter
want to teach daughter
I want better tools to teach daughter empathy
feel strongly need to have empathy for her and her needs.
issue of daughter pushing and needing to set boundaries.
No-one was looking out for me
get resentful
I need to let it go
now have to let it go
How to let it go?
self reflection
think thighs through
get to the root
Do you have closure?
have acceptance
up to others to fix things