SDCA Journal of Psychology

Abstract

This study aimed to reveal the coming out experiences and coping styles of the gay community of SDCA. The researchers have chosen this topic to further explore the history and experience of gay students throughout their coming out journey, as well as how they are able to conduct themselves after. This study also looked into the gays` experience and coping styles they adapted as they adapted as they handle circumstances during and after the coming out process. The researchers selected ten (10) SDCA college students from the gay community from different college programs. As we interviewed the participants about their history, life experiences, and coping styles they utilized after coming out, it was revealed that majority of the participants were able to realize their sexuality at an early age and they exhibited a feminine gender expression. Six (6) out of ten (10) participants were able to come out to their families and friends. This is because they feared being rejected and losing connection with their families. Furthermore, when the participants were asked on what coping styles they adapted after coming out of the closet, seven (7) out of ten (10) participants were able to cope with their situation well as they received support from families. The remaining three (3) participants were able to cope through the support from their friends which had helped them to be more confident and productive in their lives.

Keywords: Gay student, coming out, coping styles, support system, acceptance.