The following link is for a webinar that was held in Georgia for the Quarter Century Club there. They have made it available to other IBM retiree groups. While it does mention specifics of Georgia law, it also provides information that will be of value to those who live in other states. Obviously if you want to follow up on any of this information, you should research (by contacting an Elder Care lawyer or the appropriate state agency) before assuming how it would apply in your state.
Here is the link: Elder Care Law Webinar