Melinda passed away from cancer shortly after Thanksgiving in 2022. Her children, Quintin and Makayla — now grown — moved to Decatur, Indiana just before Christmas that year. It’s comforting to know they’re nearby.
She was known by many names over the years: Melinda Patterson, Barrymore, Villanueva, and finally, Montana. I first met her when she was married to Jay B., long before she had children. Watching her become a grandmother several times over has a way of making me feel old… then again, maybe I am. LOL.
I’ve got a few old photos tucked away in my collection, but for now, I’ll share some Facebook photo memories — snapshots of a life lived with love, laughter, and resilience.
Rest in peace, Melinda. You’re missed.
Here are Quintin and Mel at Disneyland. If you didn't recognize the characters, they're Bert and Mary Poppins. Taken Oct 13, 2018.
Here's Erik teasing Makayla while on vacation in October, 2018 at Disneyland. Before Mel's death, her and Erik had split up because of his alcoholism that he wrestled with for many years.
Not quite the perfect picture, but a 2018 photo of Makayla and Quintin. Amazing that Makayla looks so much like her mom.
And finally, a couple of photos of Mel's "children," though obviously adults now. Known 'em both since they were babies. And I actually was babysitter when I was needed when my job at Radio Shack (remember them?) wouldn't get in the way. I really worked a LOT of hours back then.
Chauntel is on the left and Krystal on the right. From Facebook. Don't have any photos of their kids but they have a good collection of them on Facebook. Chauntel blocked me on Facebook many years ago. Not exactly sure why, but it would be great to get back in contact with her someday and see what's been happening in her life. News from her dad (Jay) is that Chauntel is going to medical school (maybe already graduated or close as of Spring 2024), and Krystal has become a schoolteacher as of late 2023. That's excellent!!!