The CUC Youth Event Rules and Policy on Sexualized Behaviour at Youth Events lay out the standards for CUC-sponsored youth events, including CanUUdle. All participants must sign the rules and policies in the registration form.
If you have questions about how we create or enforce rules, or deal with breaches of the rules, please contact Asha Philar at asha@cuc.ca.
The following rules have been adopted to foster the creation of safe and inclusive community during youth conferences, trainings and other events where youth are the main participants and where there is an ‘overnight’ component. These rules are intended to offer the “minimum expectations” for behavior of participants and are based both on valued behavioral norms that are promoted in UU Youth culture as well as insurance requirements and best safety practices. For these reasons, these rules will be in effect at all CUC youth events and are recommended for use/adaptation at the congregational level as well.
Exclusive behaviours, typically involving small closed groupings of individuals, have been identified by both youth and adults, to be detrimental to a variety of the goals of UU youth gatherings and events.
These goals include but are not limited to:
Cliques, bullying, drug and alcohol use, violence and overtly sexual behavior all diminish the chance for these goals to be reached.
The following apply to all participants of youth events, regardless of age:
Notes
Sexuality is a healthy and important part of young people’s lives. Youth programs are an important opportunity for youth to express themselves in healthy ways, however exclusive relationships, especially those of a romantic or sexual nature often detract from the larger community. All members of the community must respect each other’s physical boundaries and the intention and purpose of Youth Events.
Inappropriate sexualized behaviour for youth events (i.e. oral, vaginal, anal or digital intercourse, and or sexual harassment of any kind) is not permitted. (In short form: Yes for consensual hugs and kisses, No touching with the intent to arouse , between the neck and the knees).
The Reconciliation Committee (or designated group) reserves the right to deem any behaviour inappropriate. Parents/guardians are invited to discuss this policy with their youth.
Breach of either of the above Youth Event Rules or Policy on Sexualized Behaviour, during a Youth Event, may result in participants being disallowed to participate in the remainder of the event/and or being barred from attending future CUC Youth Events. In the case of a serious breach of rules, the participant may be sent home at their or their parents’ expense.