Attire
Attire
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As debutantes, you are expected to be charming, graceful, well-groomed, and modestly dressed. Hair, make-up, nails, underarms, and the general appearance of the debutante should be immaculate. Extreme hair coloring is not acceptable. The cooperation of each debutante and her parents will help to make this a memorable occasion.
Debutante - Ball Attire:
Debutante - Ball Attire:
WHITE, long, formal Ball Gown with white gloves to complement the dress. Please be sure to select WHITE as the color.
Must wear the dress and gloves selected by the AFEE Foundation
WHITE evening pumps; heels no higher than 2 inches, no flats or ballerina shoes
WHITE pantyhose and undergarments
WHITE petticoat is worn underneath the formal Ball Gown
Hair should complement the gown and the occasion
Drop pearl earrings
Cover all body markings and tattoos. Remove body piercings.
NEW Ball Gown Order Deadline: June 29, 2025
Important information BEFORE ordering dress:
The dress as pictured comes with a top layer of material featuring appliqué and a wedding train. When ordering, please provide specific instructions (below) to ensure the dress is tailored for our program.
Take ALL measurements A-J following the provided diagram below to ensure fit.
In addition to A-J, measure the height from your shoulder to the waistline. This helps us ensure the dress falls at your waist perfectly.
Copy and paste the customization and ordering instructions below into the message section for your order on the website.
A customization fee of $10 to $20 will be charged to make this dress according to your measurements.
Customization Instructions: (to be included verbatim)
Please custom-make the dress to fit these measurements (ENTER MEASUREMENTS). The top layer of the dress should be made using plain fabric, without any appliqué. NO TRAIN
We are with The Arlington Foundation for Excellence in Education.
Ordering Instructions:
Add the following to the notes for your order:
AFEE
NO APPLIQUE
NO TRAIN
DRESS Color: WHITE
DRESS Back: LACE UP
Suggestions:
Go to a seamstress to get measured (optional)
Use the guide and/or the video to show how to take measurements properly.
Wear the white shoes for the ball to your alteration appointments.
DRESS TRY-ON APPROVAL DAY:
Bring all your items for your ball gown (dress, white petticoat, white shoes, white undergarments, etc.).
If alterations are needed, try to complete them before the approval date.
6-hoops underskirt women white a line petticoat wedding crinoline underskirt floor length underskirt (Other options on this site may be less expensive. I ordered the sample from this link.)
Accessory Examples
Accessory Examples
Approved Vendor options: TBD
Father/Father Figure
Father/Father Figure
Must use vendor provided by the AFEE Foundation – No Deviations)
Formal black tuxedo with tails
Formal black tuxedo pants with white shirt and black cummerbund
White bow tie
White vest
White gloves
White pocket handkerchief
Black dress shoes and socks (provided by the father)
Hair should be cut/styled to complement the tuxedo and the occasion (Natural colors pleased)
No earrings
Escort
Escort
Must use vendor provided by the AFEE Foundation – No Deviations)
Formal white dinner coats with black lapels
Formal black tuxedo pants with white shirt with black cummerbund
Black bow tie, dress shoes and socks
Hair should be cut/styled to complement the tuxedo and the occasion (Natural colors pleased)
No earrings
Tuxedo Vendor:
Tuxedo Vendor:
Men’s Wearhouse
951 Interstate Highway 20 West, Suite 101
(Northwest of Intersection of I-20/Matlock)
Arlington, TX 76017- 817-784-1888
Contact: Joanna
GROUP NUMBER: 13405817
YOU MUST HAVE YOUR TUXEDO FITTING NO LATER THAN
October 30, 2025
Deposit: $40
Fathers Pricing $165.07
Fathers in black tailcoats, white shirts, and black pants with white bowtie and white vest
Escorts Pricing $194.84
Escorts in white dinner coats with black lapels, black pants, and black cummerbund with black bowtie
AFEE will provide gloves to fathers and escorts
Pickup date: November 11, 2025
(You may want to pick up early just in case additional alterations are needed)
Return tux date: November 17, 2025
(There is a $20.00 per day late fee if the rental is returned after Nov. 17th)
It is recommended that everyone go in for their fitting as soon as possible to ensure that they can guarantee all the sizes and styles we have selected.
Mother/Mother Figure
Mother/Mother Figure
Black formal floor-length evening gown
Complementary shoes and accessories
Mother-Daughter Tea Attire:
Mother-Daughter Tea Attire:
Fascinator, church hat, gloves, dress or skirt/blouse ensemble. Fascinators or church hats are mandatory for Debutantes and Mother/Mother Figure.
Pearl Ceremony Attire:
Pearl Ceremony Attire:
Debutante: Black Dress with no shoulders or cleavage showing (short or long sleeve); can wear a black sweater or jacket
Knee Length (up to 3 inches below the knee)
Black Stockings (no tights)
Black Shoes (Pumps)
Pearl Stud Earrings – Medium Size (6MM to 7MM)
No other jewelry
Natural Makeup with natural lip colors (no red or pink)
Hairstyle should not cover the pearl stud earrings
Workshop Attire:
Workshop Attire:
Each Debutante must dress in business attire for all workshops unless otherwise specified
Short shorts or short skirts are not to be worn at all during sessions.
NO crop tops (No bellies are to be shown)
What Not to Wear - Inappropriate Attire Examples
What Not to Wear - Inappropriate Attire Examples
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