Depression and anxiety
Spending too much time on social media can affect your mood. Social media can easily let you compare the negatives of your life to other people's lives online.
FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)
Fomo means fear of missing out. You have a fear of missing out on a good experience that other people are having. You might often check your messages if your friends invite you to a party or you might check your media platforms to make sure that your friends are not doing something entertaining without you.
Lack of self-control
Self-control includes impatience and irritability. Self-control is also related to FOMO since you might check your phone with the fear of missing out, which will make you lack self-control.
When you are addicted to social media, you spend less time with the people you love such as your best friends. Due to increased isolation and increased irritability, you distance yourself more from your friends and you start to feel hateful or irritated by something your friend did that isn't much of a big problem. This can also make your friends distance themselves from you and overtime, this can cause you to lose your friendship and trust with them.
If you use too much social media, you spend your precious energy. The time and energy you spent in social media can't be used to do something more productive and important. This affects your work and you don't have enough time to do it. For example, you use social media more than 5 hours a day, and you have a big assignment you need to turn in the next day. After using social media for 5 hours, you realize that you have to submit your assignment, but you are too tired and it's late in the night. This affects your work quality and you may have bad performance in school.
LOI 2: Causes of social media addiction
Social media apps are designed to be addictive. There are 3 mechanisms that motivate the habit (addiction):
Motivation: Teens feel the anticipation about getting likes, comments, or posts, with FOMO (the fear of missing out).
Action: The act of reading and responding, such as liking or commenting. Repeated behavior becomes a habit.
Trigger: The way that the motivation is activated such as the phone vibrating when a notification is received.
LOI 3: Ways to prevent social media addiction
1. Limit when social media is accessed and for how long.
2. Turn off notifications. You can check notifications during your social media time. Notifications are a potential brain system trigger.
3. Avoid using social media when you’re feeling down. If you’re feeling any emotions avoid using social media. Social media can trigger your emotions which will make your emotions worse. If you’re feeling sad try doing something that makes you happy. You can talk to your friends/family, go for a walk, or listen to music.
4. Be aware of the triggers that make you want to use social media. There are a lot of things that can trigger you to use social media. If you know what triggers you, you can be more prepared to avoid them.
5. Find other fun activities that don’t involve devices. When you want to play games, watch videos, or have the urge to use social media, do something else. Try outdoor activities. You can play sports, go for a walk, exercise, play board games, and have a playdate with your friends.
6. Don’t compare yourself to others. One of the things that triggers your brain for social media is comparing yourself to others. It’s easy to compare yourself to others.
7. Delete unnecessary apps and WhatsApp groups.
Motivation: Teens feel the anticipation about getting likes, comments, or posts, with FOMO (the fear of missing out).
Action: The act of reading and responding, such as liking or commenting. Repeated behavior becomes a habit.
Trigger: The way that the motivation is activated such as the phone vibrating when a notification is received.
1. Limit when social media is accessed and for how long.
2. Turn off notifications. You can check notifications during their social media time. Notifications are a potential brain system trigger.
3. Avoid using social media when you’re feeling down. If you’re feeling any emotions avoid using social media. Social media can trigger your emotions which will make your emotions worse. If you’re feeling sad try doing something that makes you happy. You can talk to your friends/family, go for a walk, or listen to music.
4. Be aware of the triggers that make you want to use social media. There are a lot of things that can trigger you to use social media. If you know what triggers you, you can be more prepared to avoid them.
5. Find other fun activities that don't involve devices. When you want to play games, watch videos, or have the urge to use social media do something else. Try new outdoor activities.
6. Don’t compare yourself to others. One of the things that triggers your brain for social media is comparing yourself to others. It’s easy to compare yourself to others.
7. Delete unnecessary apps and WhatsApp groups.
The dopamine increases if you are engaged with Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, or other social media platforms. When a user gets a retweet, or an emoticon notification, the brain receives tons of dopamine and sends it along reward pathways. It feels wonderful, but it also acts to strengthen our need to satisfy the feeling next time. This cycle of motivation, reward, and strengthen a “dopamine loop” that gets users seeking, looking, craving rewards and more of them.
If a person gets addicted to social media, they will have anxiety or depression, increased isolation, decreased physical activity, low self-esteem, and poor work or school performance, among many others. This can cause other unwanted issues such as losing relationships and it makes the victim even lonelier and they start to have suicidal thoughts.
How can social media addiction damage the mental and physical state of people?
As it is mentioned in number 4, it causes anxiety or depression, increased isolation, decreased physical activity, low self-esteem, and poor work or school performance, among many others. But they also affect our physical state, through sleep disturbances. Blue screen, which is in almost every device, affect our sleep. When we’re exposed to blue light, we become more alert which isn’t what’s supposed to happen at night when we’re about to sleep. That’s why blue light affects our sleep. Social media damage our physical body, to obesity. Obesity is a complex disease involving an excessive amount of body fat. If you overuse social media addiction, you won't be able to be active as usual.
6. Which age group is the most addicted to social media?
Young adults tend to be the most affected by social media addiction. It's significantly higher amongst young single women. 90% of people aged 18-29 use social media in some form. 15% of people aged 23-38 admit that they are addicted to social media.