Whilst reflection is often considered to be an individual activity, reflecting with other people can help you to compare your meaning making.
What different expectations did people have for the experience?
Where did those expectations come from?
What different aspects of the experience were people aware of?
How do people's memories of the event differ?
How do people express or describe the experience differently?
What different language or symbols do they use?
What different criteria do people use to evaluate an experience?
What different things are people comparing aspects of the experience to?
What different similarities and differences between things are people noticing?
What different boundaries do people notice?
What different patterns and connections do people notice in an experience?
What different structures do people apply to information from an experience?
What different explanations and predictions do people make about their experiences?
In what different ways do people make sense of their experiences?