We use our meaning schemas to infer the motivations of other people (and sometimes ourselves) from patterns of behaviour. Sometimes we infer incorrectly.
During reflection it can be helpful to re-examine our assumptions about what motivations were driving our own and other people's behaviours.
One way of doing this is to name a common human need (representation) and ask yourself "What evidence can I find that a need for X was behind this behaviour?" (causation)
You could then evaluate whether this need driver (or a combination of drivers) provides a more comprehensive and convincing explanation for the observed behaviour (comparison).
Below are a number of needs frameworks that could be useful.
See David Rock's SCARF model of common threat/reward domains that influence our behaviour (status, certainty, autonomy, relatedness, fairness — although if you replace 'fairness' with 'equity' you get SCARE which is perhaps more pertinent).
Status — respect, influence, authority, position, face, expertise
Certainty — predictability, order, understanding, mastery
Autonomy — freedom, control, choice
Relatedness — belonging, inclusion, acceptance, trust
Equity — fairness, justice, reciprocity
Physiological
Safety
Belonging and love
Esteem
Cognitive
Aesthetic
Self-actualisation
Transcendence
Nurturing - to attend to the survival, nourishing and wellbeing needs of others, especially of subsequent generations
Influence - to have other individuals emulate one's adaptive behavioural patterns
Authenticity - to ensure that symbolic expressions and behaviours are likely to be interpreted by others in a way that matches as closely as possible the internal representations held by the individual
Health - to maintain one's physical (and mental) wellbeing
Self-governance - to be able to respond to environmental stimuli with adaptive behaviours not subject to limitations, constraints or distorting influences, both external and internal
Meaning - to be able to incorporate perceptual information into internal meaning schemas which facilitate the selection and pursuit of adaptive goals
Rest – for regular temporary cessation of goal-directed physical, social and mental activities
Sustenance - to obtain appropriate nourishment from one's environment
Sex – to find desirable reproductive partners
Stimulation - for perceptible information-rich changes in one's environment
Predictability - for stimuli in which one can discern patterns that facilitate the understanding and anticipation of the likelihood and nature of environmental phenomena
Security - to preserve one's physical integrity from possible threats within the environment
Interaction - for proximity or any form of joint activity between species members (or groups of species members) that results in the transmission of behavioural traits
Reciprocity - for a proportional relationship between benefits received and efforts expended in collaborative communication with another
Attention - to for a dependent individual to be worthy of caregiving and having one's needs met by others
Attraction - to considered sexually desirable
Mastery - to be able to produce or reproduce successfully adaptive behaviours in response to environmental demands or observation of other’s behaviours
Performance - to achieve outcomes that are judged as adaptive or successful by oneself or others
Confirmation - for accuracy in one's perceptions and judgments
Affirmation - to receive indications that one’s explanations, predictions and valuations are accepted by others