30-36 months

Milestones: 30-36 Months

  • Topics covered: Language, Cognitive, Movement, Social and Emotional

Milestones in Language:

From the ages of 2.5 to 3 years of age, your child's language is continuing to blossom and at 2.5 years they can say up to about 50 words! At 3 years old, your child is more curious about the world around them and is asking what and where questions and can understand why questions. They are also learning how to take turns during a conversation and can carry on a conversation with at least 2 back-and-forth exchanges. Additionally:

At 30 months children are able to:

  • Use 2-3 word phrases consistently with actions words “Doggie run”

  • Uses in and on

  • 50% min of speech is understood by a caregiver

  • Follows 2 step unrelated directions (pick up the ball and go get your bag)

  • Understanding of basic nouns and pronouns

  • Understands “mine” and “yours”

  • Uses “I,” “me,” or “we”

  • Can name things in a book

At 36 months children are able to:

  • Use plural

  • Most speech is understood by the caregiver

  • A simple understanding of concepts including color, space, and time

  • Understand most simple sentences

  • Say their first name when asked

  • Explain actions in a book such as “playing” or “running”

Mother looking surprised at young smiling child

Milestones in Cognition:

The wheels are turning! Your child is understanding concepts such as day/night and big/small. They can point out body parts, match, and sort objects by shape and color. And they can also remember what objects look like. Your child may also:

  • Recite count lists and known common colors

  • Turn pages of a book one at a time

  • Do puzzles consisting of three to four pieces

  • Draw or copy a circle with a crayon or pencil.

  • Play make-believe with dolls, animals, and people.

  • Use their imagination to create stories or play.

  • Work toys with buttons, levers, and moving parts (for example, makes mechanical toys work).

Child sitting on a couch reading a book

Child sitting on a couch reading a book

Milestones in Movement/Motor Skills:

They never stop moving! But at this age, they are running more and falling less. They may start walking up and down the stairs one at a time. Your child may also feel safer and reassured if a caregiver is around and are more confident trying new things and exploring on their own. At this stage, your child may also:

  • Dress and undress self

  • Pedal on tricycles

  • Climb and run easily

  • Jump with both feet

  • String items together like making a macaroni necklace

  • Screw and unscrew jar lids, and turns door handles.

Milestones in Social/Emotional Development:

This age is most important for emotional development but may also be the most difficult. Your child is experiencing many new emotions and trying to understand others' emotions. Temper tantrums are normal as they are not able to navigate these big feelings and emotions they have. But they may show less separation anxiety and separate from their caregiver easily or calm themselves down within 10 minutes of separation. Your child can also:

  • Join in play with other children

  • Show concern and affection for others on their own

  • Verbalize toilet needs

  • Like routine and does not like it disrupted

  • Show a wide range of feelings and emotions

  • Show affection and empathy on own

Child stringing macaroni on a string

Child stringing macaroni on a string

Child riding a tricycle

Child riding a tricycle down a road