2020-03-25 Spread

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March 25, Empathy Cafe: How to spread the Empathy Circle practice in XR?

https://www.facebook.com/events/2393567700910441

Online Free Event on Zoom. In this Empathy Cafe, we will use the Empathy Circle process to discuss and take tangible steps to spread the Empathy Circle process widely throughout the Extinction Rebellion movement and beyond.

We want to support people in learning and deepening their active listening (aka, empathic listening, reflective listening, deep listening) skills. We want every person to be able to;

  • * take part in an Empathy Circle,

  • * facilitate an Empathy Circle

  • * facilitate an Empathy Cafe.

  • * train others in the practice.

We will talk about how local XR CHAPTERS, ANY GROUP and ALL ORGANIZATIONS can get support for holding online Empathy Circles. If your group set the times and dates, brings together people online, we can help you facilitate an Empathy Circle.

QUESTIONS TO DISCUSS

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  • * What are the benefits of Empathy Circles in XR?

  • * What are the drawbacks of empathy circles in XR?

  • * How might we make this empathy circle a foundational XR practice?

  • * What are the benefits of empathy circles as foundational XR practice?

  • * ETC, ETC.

André S Clements This is important work, especially because we aim to be nonviolent, and that is difficult at the best of times, especially when we also practice decentralization and autonomy. We all have different levels of empathy. To those who have more empathy than you, you seem callous, to those with less empathy than you, you seem weak or perhaps even selfish. The more we are faced with threat the more this will lead to painful conflict and damage to our cause. We can counteract this by developing shared empathy skills through practices like this. Thanks Edwin Rutsch.

Michelle Wehner Edwin does great work on empathy circles - I’ve never heard of them before, and have attended my first two a couple weeks ago. I highly recommend experiencing these❤️👏❤️. Thank you Edwin for sharing this great process ❤️👏❤️

Full Empathy Cafe

Benefits of Empathy Circle

Google Document

Ideas on how to Spread Empathy Circles.

Circle 2 - Facilitator: Karolina

1. Your Name: Edwin Rutsch

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: (x) yes

Location: San Francisco Bay Area

XR Chapter if Any: XR SF, XR Empathy Circle Work Group

Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process:

How might we spread the empathy circle practice throughout the XR movement and beyond? If everyone in XR could take part and facilitate an Empathy Circle

2. Your Name: Bill Filler

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: (x ) yes

Location: San Francisco Bay Area

Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process: As basic as it may seem, I believe the first order to address our problems is to work on our empathy and communication skills.

3. Your Name: Karolina Kubiak

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: (x ) yes

Location: gdansk, poland

XR Chapter if Any: XR Empathy Circle Work Group, XR Poland, Global Support

4. Your Name: Marta Neto

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: (x ) yes

Location: Cork Ireland.

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: XR Empathy Circle Work Group, XR Ireland.

5. Your Name: Maria Flavin

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: (x ) yes

Location: Stafford, VA, USA

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: None

Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process: I am not part of XR . I'm a stay at home mom of 4, (2 in college) I live in a very politically conservative region, I am a liberal I am a convert to Christianity at age 31 (20 years ago) I would like to be part of helping our region a nd humankind become more empathetic. In my family and in the area there is a lot of anger because we don't understand our feelings or needs or how to get them met. Thank you Edwin, bottom line I'm a super newbie! I'm gonna need a lot of help

It's so strange that I dont think I would have participated if there wasnt a pandemic!

6. Your Name: Rev. Rowan Fairgrove

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: ( ) yes

Location: San Jose, CA

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: XR South Bay

7. Your Name: Nancy Goebel

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: ( ) no

Location: Canada

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: Dont know what an XR Chapter is!

Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process:

I work in a university library in Canada. I am interested in trying to host empathy circles with my co-workers while we all work at home, deal with COVID-19 fears, and go through deep provincial budget cuts during all of this. However,

  • I am not sure about the TOPICS … what should I suggest?

  • Or fully leave it to participants?

Sorry, I cannot stay for all of this session but I will listen to the recording tomorrow!

8. Your Name: Michela Lagorio

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: ( ) yes

Location: Italy

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: XR CORK

Contact info: l.michela90@gmail.com

Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process:

How can I apply an empathy circle in my workplace? And also with my family.

9. Your Name: Cani

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: (x ) yes

Location: Switzerland

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: XR Bern

Contact info: cani@viwago.ch

10. Your Name: Richard Schut

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: ( x) yes

Location: Online :) at the moment in Germany

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: www.powerofmoo.com

Contact info: rschut@dds.nl

Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process:

Love it, it has the potential to become a point of transformation in current “crisis”

11. Your Name: Sarah Aminoff

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: ( ) yes

Location: SF Bay Area

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process: Hoping to create transformation and safety in this current state of emergency and learn from each other, also concerned that governments are doing a band aid approach and not addressing the synergistic cocktail of environmental toxins that are potentially lowering immunity

12. Your Name: Leona Dawson

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: ( ) yes

Location: Sydney

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: XR Regen Sydney

Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process:

Add exploring specifics of regen culture in xr - strenghtening ‘what is a regen culture and why does it matter in our world, community and in activism"?

13. Your Name: Katie Fesel

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: (x) yes with training

Location: Tewkesbury- Gloucestershire- England

XR Chapter if Any:

Write at least one question or comment you have about the Empathy Circle process:

I think this is interesting re regenerative movement! I also want to find ways of bringing this to children as a consistent process- I am learning by doing-so gratitude!

14. Your Name: James Green

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: (x ) yes

Location: Syracuse NY

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: None

15. Your Name: Sarah McCue

Willing to facilitate a Circle?: ( X) yes

Location: Hobart, Tasmania

XR Chapter or Organization if Any: Hobart